I would like to have her write them all for me cause I like to imagine that it is me in the stories that I am reading. Is that wrong? I do love her very much, I don't care about her past relationships. I don't need the names of previous boyfriends, just the details. Am I weird?
2006-07-18 18:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by Hawaiian_Kine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I will never want to see my wife with another man, or woman. Her past is her past, I just wouldn't mind reading about the good parts. LOL!! There are things my wife has experienced that she doesn't want to experience them with me. She said she didn't enjoy doing it, and she doesn't want to try it again. I understand her feelings, but I do love to imagine. If I can imagine the experience, then I feel like I did those with my wife.
2006-07-18 18:52:21 · update #1
I don't think it's that weird. I've heard a lot of stuff and that's pretty tame, healthy in fact. Better that your fatasies involve her and not some other woman.Fantisize all you want.
2006-07-18 19:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by militantfairy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is twisted jealousy, the erotic part comes from the sexuall feelings you get from thinking about it, making your emotions surface, mabe you may want to see her with another man some day, so if you continue wanting to hear, then you will want to see then who knows could get out of control, if she is ok with it good you have a good sex life
2006-07-19 01:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little strange to me. If you act out her old stories she might compare them to you and she might like her old boyfriend better. I would not go there if I were you.
2006-07-19 01:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't exactly normal thinking. i guess it couldn't hurt but if she isn't comfortable don't force the issue. wouldn't it be more fun to use your own imagination when you fantasize? i bet she is glad to hear your fantasies revolve around her and not Angelina Jolie.
2006-07-19 01:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It's a turn on to think about your mate being desirable to others.
2006-07-19 01:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Justcurious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty weird unless she was with girls before you.
It's ok but it's certainly different.
2006-07-19 01:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked a simular question . i find it a real turn on!!
2006-07-19 01:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by RAILMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you are thinking about
2006-07-19 01:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by realpleya08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope... whatever floats your boat!
2006-07-19 01:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty weird...
2006-07-19 01:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋