i cant tell my mom cause she is dead and i dont want my dad to get involved cause hell kill him and im an only child what should i do
2006-07-18 18:17:42 · 21 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he comes over everyday. and if im not home he comes and finds me if im with my friends he makes me leave. he broke my cell phone when i tried to call the cops now my dad has to bye me a new one and my bffs brother said when he sees him hes dead cause my bffs bro likes me. when i get him out of my life im gonna hook up with my bffs bro
2006-07-18 18:29:31 · update #1
Honey, get out of that relationship. If he's able to raise a hand to you and beat you, then he's capable of doing even worse things. He does not love you or care for you, because if he did, he would have never been able to hurt you. The best thing for you to do is tell your Dad, or any adult that you trust and know that will listen and do the right thing. In the meantime, stay away from that guy. He is nothing but trouble, and will hurt you worse if you give him the chance.
2006-07-18 18:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Maico 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Leave him...that's an unhealthy relashionship. he doesn't have the right to put his hands on you. You don't deserve this!!! Leave him please...Don't be afraid. He might say he'll stop but he'll keep doing it. You don't need to be in an abusive relationshiip to begin with and at your age you shouldn't be worrying about that kind of stuff.
The best thing you can do is to leave him and save yourself.
Maybe the best thing isn;t to tell your dad...but if your bf starts to threaten you if you leave him. Care about your safety first. maybe you should tell your dad if he does threaten you.
But not get the police involed unless you want them too. Get a restaining order or something.
A real man doesn't hit a woman. he's a boy. and is insecure if hitting you makes him feel powerful and like he has control over you. It could get worse...thats' why im saying that it's an unhealthy relationship!!!
Don't let him take control of you and your life ok. your better than that. You deserve someone that will respect you, your feelings and treat you like a princess. not hit you and put you down because you didn't want to give it up!!!
Good luck!!! <3
2006-07-18 18:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone period. Don't call him, don't see him, don't talk to him. Act like he don't exist. That's the only way to get away from a man. Don't try an be his friend either because you will end up back where you started, getting beat up.
I'm going to say something and I want you to hear me "he is hurting you, he is hruting you." I have a friend where her ex tried to put her on fire and he throw a frying pan at her. She's not even with him anymore but she still like seeing him. That's why I'm telling you not to have any association with him. I know it's going to be hard but you have to do it for yourself. once you do this you will feel like you have accomplished something in life. It is a great feeling in the end. You just have to be strong.
2006-07-18 18:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand exactly where you're coming from... even though it feels like even people who have gone through this cant. a while ago i was going out with someone and i denied him sex... (I WAS ONLY 13 FOR CHRISTS SAKE!!!) and he began beating me too. last november he beat to the point of unconsiousness. to the point where you couldnt tell what sex i was, much less who. i nearly died that night and he had played mind games on me the whole time. he had me convinced i deserved it. i know now (after much therapy) that i didnt. if he's doing that to u, you should know that you dont either! no one does!!! do yourself a favor and call 1-800-799-7233. they are a hotline dedicated to helping people in any abuse situation. please, before your life is endangered, call. if you ever need to talk about anything, this or other things. PLEASE im me @ blondiexblue@yahoo.com blondiebluebear@aim.com and if u feel like talking then, i will give u my number if u want it, so you can reach me anytime.
i really hope i helped!!!
sincerely
jasmine
2006-07-18 18:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you!?!? He beats you and you don't want your dad to know? Go tell him about it and get a restraining order against that creep. Forcing sex onto someone else when they clearly said no is rape. Beating is not love. It's control and it will only escalate. Get some help now. And tell that loser if he ever hurt you again, you will call the police. Jeez, this was a no-brainer!
2006-07-18 18:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie get out of the relationship and fast!! u don't deserve 2 be treated like that no one does! ur a special girl and this guy obviously doesn't luv u he just wants u 4 sex omg i feel sooooooooooooo bad 4 u! i cant imagine being in ur situation be careful and keep ur head held high dont let that man hurt u call the police so he can be put in a place where he deserves 2 be! stay safe!!! lots of luv from me 2 u! hang in there
2006-07-18 18:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell some adult it doesn't really matter who. I think that your dad will understand and be responsible about his actions. It was very good for you to say no to this guy but now you need to tell him to leave you alone. Tell him that you don't want anything to do with him or else you will tell the police about what he has done to you. If he does continue take pictures if he leaves bruises and you can go to the police with this.
2006-07-18 18:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely leave this guy alone. Since you are so young it might be easier for you to just avoid him. Stop accepting his phone calls and don't communicate to him in anyway. If he tries to come near you, then you call the police. You should definitely tell your dad though... This guy is psycho.
2006-07-18 18:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really sad to hear that.... u know what.. just break up with him.. no matter what.. be brave girl !!! i think u should pray to God.. that is the first thing to do... then, close ur eyes, and talk to ur mom eventhough ur mom died already... third, tell ur dad about ur boyfriend... if those 3 dont work, then.. u should do the 4th one, call the cops !! that's the only thing u can do.. and dont worry girl.. God is always around you, and help you ok?? just be brave !!!! i know u can do it.. come on.... everything is possible... good luck !! the only thing im worry about is if he goes to rape you >.< omgosh.... just be careful ok???
2006-07-18 18:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by girly_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, and threaten him with your dad AND the cops if he ever comes near you again.
2006-07-18 18:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋