why do I feel so confused about my ex boyfriend and the guy i hooked up with?

Question

just got out of a bad relationship then went into my first hookup within a week. and i basically went from doing nothing to goin to 3rd base...i just feel so confsued right now. still good friends with my ex, he hooked me up w/ his friend (which explains the hook up situation.) he says how givin head on my first hookup bothered him...and I never gave my ex head we only made out cuz we were never alone..our relationship was unsuccesfull twice! he made out with our friends older sisiter tonight when the power went out. im just really pissed! goin away tomorrow on vacation, hoping to find another guy there to maybe fool around w/...sick and tired of relationships and i have only had two....he made me bitter towards relationships

i said a week but it was really two weeks. broke up with my ex then 2 weeks later hooked up w/ his friend...yes i kno how grungy that sounds and is...

Answer 1

first of all i think you need to slow down..im sure all those guys is looking at you lilke you are a h03..and i doubt they respect you..why would u hook up with your ex's friend? thats jus gross and no respect on either of yall part..i would never do it..just think how bad they are talking about you and laughing about you right now..i mean your looking like the nasty duck now..and why would u hook up with someone within a week anyway let alone let it b someone so close to your ex? i would be more then confused i would feel ashamed of myself ...you need to leave the guys alone and learn how to respect and love yourself first before letting some guy do it..and mesisng with these random guys who obviously doesnt care about you is not making anything better nor is it making things clearer so you wont be confused..why would you want to continue wth someone that messed with your friends older sister?? sounds like jerry springer show to me..why is everybody messing with everybody? yall are all nasty. why would u want to find someone to fool around with..thats your problem now and thats why you are hear..focus on something like your career..if you was so into your carreer and making youself successful like youare thinking about which guy you could be with next..you wouldnt be so confused and worried and be talked about as we speak..im not hear to hurt your feelings..im just telling you like i would tell my friends if they came at me with the situation..do something positive with yourself babygurl..guys are full of balonge..and they are not going to respect you if they see you giving away yourself so easily..you are making it hard for females like us who wants a decent guy who respects us when they leave the good girls like us for the trashy girls like u...im sorry that sounds bad..stop putting yourself out there! dissapear from the dating/sex scence for a while..make them want you..let them be confused about you..

Answer 2

Listen don't give up on love you just approach it wrong. If someone truly loves you they would care if you had any kind of sex for a while. When you just meet someone and you give them some kind of sex. The mystery is gone. Then you don't have a chance to really fall deeply in love. Sex is not love. It's just a part of love. But when you are truly in love. Its called making love it is not sex no more. You know if its just sex. Because it will not last as long every time.

Answer 3

Nobody made you bitter about anything. You did that on your own. You jumped from one frying pan to another without even taking a breath. Dump all and get to know yourself as a person. I hope you're using protection against STD,HIV and unwanted pregnancies..

Answer 4

JUST SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO TAKE TIME TO FIND OUT
WHAT YOU WANT. YOU JUST GOT OUT OF A BAD SITUATION
AND YOU JUMP INTO ANOTHER ONE. NEED TO TAKE TIME
TO FIND SELF. AND I BELEVE YOU WONT BE CONFUSED
ABOUT WHAT GOING ON.

Answer 5

stop hooking up with random people and you won't have this problem, eh?