Family & Relationships - 22 June 2006

I'm firends with a guy who is amazingly funny and caring!!
BUT, i only fancy him sometimes and other time i don't at all. He really likes me and has taken me out on a 1 to 1 date which went really well!
BUT, i spent most of the time wondering if i fancied him or not!
I'll be seeing him on the weekend as he's invited me out and i love spending time with him and his/my mates.
I don't wanna end up leading him on but im not even sure how i feel and i can't turn round and say 'im not sure if im attracted to you' but compared to all the blokes i meet he's a great bloke!
So my question is can you become attracted to someone over time pyshicaly????

2006-06-22 05:35:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do i do?

2006-06-22 05:35:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 05:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Big Bang 2 in Family

2006-06-22 05:32:42 · 8 answers · asked by homegurl_58 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My in laws will not stop their bully kids from hitting or throwing stuff at my daughter. This has gone on through the years. Everyone is in DENIAL because there were only 2 sons.
I feel my mother in law favors the other son, because it is his kids that act like animals. My sister in law (physcho) her sons have through the years tried to hurt my daughter, first it was just the one son who is can you believe it in HS High School the other son is in Jr. High/Middle School.
Now I have had it, it has been tooo many years of this BS,
so I am trying to cut total ties. We see each other 2 times a year. Once my mother in law passes some day. We will NOT ever see them again if I can help it..

Woud YOU stop seeing your sibling if they NEVER stopped their animal bully sons for trying to hurt your kids??? It's been like for over 10 years.

2006-06-22 05:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

because i am 19 year old guy and i never had relations with a women i'm also a loner so the idea of getting married or having a girlfriend doesn't interest me i just want 2 know if its possible that some people are meant 2b on there own

2006-06-22 05:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by shredder97 2 in Singles & Dating

ok....i am confused but i know i shouldn't be well i hung out with my guy friend && best "girl" friends at thier house the other day (just as friends) and we watched some movies and i was tired so i layed down..well before i knew it i opened my eyes and there he was right next to me staring && smiling at me...i have a b/f so i felt very awkward, then the 3 of us went on a walk and he just kept staring at my legs (i was thinking what the crap!) it was my first time wearing shorts by him so he saw my legs for the first time ..before this wierd stuff happening we were the best of friends and now he is changing..then he told me for the first time i looked hott, what is his deal? does he like me of all of a sudden, if so why?!?!

2006-06-22 05:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just informed that I am a textbook verbal abuser to my fiance. Of course, since I am the one "mentally ill", I only see my faults becuase they are printed in a textbook. Otherwise, I still consider myself as the one being "in the right" on most our issues. I need to find a way to stop myself before I further damage our relationship. Has anyone else dealt with this problem and found a solution or should I just leave the woman for her own good?

2006-06-22 05:30:53 · 21 answers · asked by Idontknow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My youngest son is easy to talk to, but when you try to talk to my oldest son all he wants to talk about his himself.

2006-06-22 05:28:54 · 7 answers · asked by Forceof1 4 in Family

I have been dating a man with 2 sons, who attends school full time at night, and works 12 hour shifts, his family does not like light-skinned women...and have voice their opinion on that. I have been helping him with his school work for the summer and he has committed to us buying a house together and being a family. Problem is his family is always taking precedence. Its almost like they are purposefully asking for his help....His divorce is final in august. we had plans last night and he did not bother to let me know...for a man that says he loves me, why would he always put his family (mother and sisters) first....AM I BEING PLAYED....OH I HELPED HIM MAKE THE PRESIDENT'S LIST FOR THE SUMMER SESSION 4.00 AVERAGE

2006-06-22 05:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by angel_fire_2149 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

with no money, family and nowhere to go because it wasn't working out? If so, how did you accomplish this? Not necessary for a shelter of any kind. Reason - you can't just go to an apartment or something and say "can I move in with no money?"

2006-06-22 05:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if all men are looking for is sex. Do any men really want to get married and be in a faithful relationship. I don't think I believe in marriage anymore and just wanted to know if any man wants to be with one woman for the rest of thier lives once they get married...

2006-06-22 05:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by mk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently cheated on my boyfriend of a year and a half i was going to leave my boyfriend for this other person but then he begged me to stay with him, i rele love him and we have been through a lot but i dont know if i am happy and i have cruched the other boys heart! what shall i do????? any i deas please help me and dont jugde me as a bad person! if you wanna say something give me constructive critisism dont *****!

2006-06-22 05:25:48 · 27 answers · asked by hippychick1990 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has told me that she has had a 'wild past' when it came to sexual partners, but we've had std testing and she is clean. And we both feel we are intimate enough to tell each other anything, except she won't tell me how many guys she has been with, it's a double standard because I've told her everything about my past yet she still refuses to tell me about hers, it's not so much the fact that she's had a past but the fact that she won't tell me about it, I will love her either way but this is killing me from the inside. What should I do?

2006-06-22 05:25:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife is very short tempered, n often uses foul language at me n my family, i try my best to keep my mouth shut, or the make her understand, but then she feels that i'm comparing people instead of situations, n she blames me for all the things that go wrong between us, she's is extremely possessive, n even gets jealuos of my mother, when my mother advises me. now she says that her love for me is fading n turning to hatred, what do i do to make her fall in love with me, apart from appologizing which i'v been doing all the time?

2006-06-22 05:25:04 · 26 answers · asked by jude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-22 05:24:36 · 2 answers · asked by ???? ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at this big castle, owned by this family. It was a mother, father and a daughter but the grandparents also lived there. They were extremely rich, and their house had yellow and red glass everywhere. So anyway, I am there and the little girl sits on her grandpas lap. He undoes her dress all the way down. She is only about 12 and has just started puberty. He starts poking at her privates and she starts arching her back. I finally am able to pull her off of him, and I carry her somewhere else and she is completely wet everywhere like she just came out of the shower.


This dream completely freaked me out, and makes me sick every time I think about it.

2006-06-22 05:23:51 · 26 answers · asked by Good Gushy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't dress like a guy or anything, and i'm girly. i've had ppl say that i'm really pretty and that i dress nicely and i'm "cute and funny". so why do girls like me, and not that many guys do?
i'm not a lesbian. but i've had a couple of girls tell me that they would jump at the chance to have sex with me. ew.

2006-06-22 05:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by *gurlygurl* 1 in Singles & Dating

i called the cops on an ex who was beating on my windows, ringing my doorbell non-stop, screaming my name, and blowing up my phone for a total of 2 hours at 3 in the morning!

i told him to please leave and i didnt wanna talk to him, but he didn't stop. i know he's slightly obsessive, but my gut feelings told me something wasn't right, so i called the cops on him and they escorted him away ( i didn't press charges, i just wanted him to take a HINT to give me my space!)

now i'm worried that he's gonna get worse or more creepy on me for having done that... did i just put myself at more jeopardy?

also, something inside of me feels really guilty and bad for having done what i did. i just need reassurance i did the right thing.

2006-06-22 05:21:54 · 38 answers · asked by creativestarwish 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went on my first date with this guy last night. We talked about everything under the sun. After 5 hours neither one of us wanted to go home, but we had to work today. What I want to know is does anyone think that it is possible to fall in love with some one after such a short time? This is not the first time that we have talked but it was our first date. Anyone else have an experience like this?

2006-06-22 05:20:27 · 27 answers · asked by TR 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 05:20:10 · 10 answers · asked by ^_§|èëp¡ñg_^ 2 in Friends

anything you like folks

2006-06-22 05:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by hththted 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 05:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by floresgabbie@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, women used to complain that men 'undressed them with their eyes'. But heck, being eaten is worse. And that is what it feels like. It's like they entirely want to consume us. Ok, it doesn't feel like a bad devouring, like there is some kind of attraction to being devoured, but it was women who started the complaining.

2006-06-22 05:19:42 · 4 answers · asked by smile4763 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-22 05:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

whats the pros and cons of this.
what's the reason for your decision either way

2006-06-22 05:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by tomio 2 in Singles & Dating

I need the correct spelling so I can send flowers. The person's name is Clarence Spector, but the spelling may not be correct.

2006-06-22 05:17:56 · 8 answers · asked by oziscool 1 in Friends

I dont know what to do.. I feel like my man is cheating but everytime we talk about the subject he ignores it...like seriously...he wont even say a word...hell just turn away..he tells me that he loves me and if i love him ill trust him and never think wrong..but i tell him that they never tell him anything about me so why all the time about him...its every week a different story...and when we talk about it then we end up arguing and the situation goes by unresolved and that leaves me with a big ?..and i feel i need to finish it..should i trust hgim and leave it like that or try till i find out the truth..

2006-06-22 05:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-22 05:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by Dilz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm mad at my dad because he has been in a bad mood ever since fathers day. He is allowed to be upset but does he have to make my mom and i unhappy too? Please give me advice to help me sort this out.

2006-06-22 05:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by hopelessromantic1993 1 in Family