I'm firends with a guy who is amazingly funny and caring!!
BUT, i only fancy him sometimes and other time i don't at all. He really likes me and has taken me out on a 1 to 1 date which went really well!
BUT, i spent most of the time wondering if i fancied him or not!
I'll be seeing him on the weekend as he's invited me out and i love spending time with him and his/my mates.
I don't wanna end up leading him on but im not even sure how i feel and i can't turn round and say 'im not sure if im attracted to you' but compared to all the blokes i meet he's a great bloke!
So my question is can you become attracted to someone over time pyshicaly????
2006-06-22 05:35:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you can. After a period of time, his/her personality is going to attract you in.
If they got an awesome personality and you love hanging out with them, why not give it a shot?
2006-06-22 05:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by blackknightpictures 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah You Can Become More Attracted.. Just Spend More Time Together And See What You Think After A Few More Meetings And Your Feelings May Have Gotten Stronger :) Ox
2016-05-20 11:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can and amazing it what it can be. However sometimes it's just not enough. They say looks are not everything and i agree but they are something. If you start a relationship with this person you may find that you have a wandering eye. It's really hard at times to read a fancy menu and not even be able to order a sample platter all the while knowing you'll be dining on pizza if you will.
2006-06-22 05:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes, you can. However, there are some things that a person has or doesn't have that you just will or won't tolerate and nothing in the world can make up for that because he's who he is. I have an ex who loves me to death, has asked me to marry him over and over and I won't because I just can't get into him that way. I've tried to FORCE myself to love this man but I'm just not that physically attracted to him. He's kind of meek and quiet though cute in his way, but I'm a forceful person and he's just not aggressive enough for me. So no matter what I try I just can't make myself have those "fuzzy" feelings for him.
2006-06-22 05:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can it is called falling in love and it happens to the best of us.My dear old daddy once told me that it is more important to like someone than to love them. It seems so many people think they are in love when it truth they are just in lust and when this fades away they discover they do not even like the person.Which leads us back to my dear old dads advice to make sure you like them and in time love will blossom and you will live a happy life together.
2006-06-22 05:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by windyy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi My name is Garry,
The answer is yes to your question, it's human nature my yahoo friend..
Sounds like you need to give it time just so you can get the right answer to your question..
take little steps and be honest to the guy after all he is as human as you are and it always works out when you are being honest with the other,,..
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry
2006-06-22 05:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation i had just broken up with my boyfriend and this great guy who liked me kept asking me out and wanting to see me but i was not exactly sure how i felt about him. In other words i didnt know if my feelings were real... We ended up not dating but now we are good friends coz he understood that i didnt feel the same way about him.
2006-06-22 05:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can definetly become attracted to someone over time, the more time you spend with them you learn more about them. You just may not notice what you're feeling in the4 beginning.
2006-06-22 05:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by beachbrunettebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like so much about him already and continue to spend time with him of curse your feelings can deepen about him. Just be open and honest with him about how you feel that you both are on the same page.
2006-06-22 05:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...I didn't like my husband at all when I first met him at work. Then after slowly getting to know him, I became very attracted to him and finally asked him out. Now we are married and I couldn't imagine ever being with another man!
2006-06-22 05:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by yogazen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋