my wife and i were married for 11yrs. then got divorced. we stayed apart for 1yr. then got back together. the reason for the divorce was a hard core cycle of me feeling second to everything in her life and my trying to make her feel the same(we both needed to grow up).
now its as if its starting all over (the cycle). she is in school, and doesn't work. i work offshore and support us (even the year we were apart). this is the deal, for mothers day i got her a dinning room table she had been looking at, for fathers day i got nothing but a verbal happy fathers day. its always like this. all year i will give her flowers and cards for no reason but to tell her how great she is. last time i was in she needed a palm pilot and i went and got it for her. when i'm home i do all the house work, cooking, cleaning all so she can have a break and get in some extra studying for school. this is what makes me feel second in her life. please give me your take on this and be honest.
thanks.
2006-06-22
04:40:24
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oilfieldtrash
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Marriage & Divorce