He is so fine I've never been out with a guy with the whole package it's unreal. But his last girlfriend was really pushy and I'm not. She called him when I went home with him for the weekend and it sounded like they could get back together when ever they want to. Is my relationship in danger. I had a dream last night that he kissed her and didn't know that I had seen it and they both pretended that nothing happened.
2006-06-22 04:40:47 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs.Davis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't ever think you're not good enough for anybody. if he doesn't like you, maybe something is wrong with him
2006-06-22 04:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Putts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are good enough for him, never doubt yourself and you will see as you get older, you learn to see how wonderful you are and all of the qualities you have that he may or may not know. Be careful and always listen to your gut feelings, if you think something is going on between them, you may be right. Ask him questions, but don't come out being pushy or too nosey because he may get defensive. Try to have a nice conversation over dinner. Hope it turns out well. And remember, if it doesn't, then he was not the guy for you and he'll realize (maybe too late) what he lost.
2006-06-22 04:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by jennienettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're good enough for him? May be you're way too much for him. Never ask yourself that question again. It doesn't matter what kind of person you are, you've always got to have something good inside of you. If his ex-girlfriend still calls him and he answers, there could be because of different reasons. One of those reasons its may be because he wants to make you feel jealous or just to give himself importance cos of having another girl after him. Another reason's could be they still like each other or they just want to be friends. If you had a dream about that, it doesn't mean they're going to get back together. Sometimes it happens that when we go to bed thinking about something, we dream about that. So, don't worry, sweetie, if he's not for you, then he's not and remember there are many guys that would love to be with you.
2006-06-22 04:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by IslandGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just insecure! They just may be good friends now.. even thought people break up sometimes they still remain good friends regardless of what happened when they were together. So if your feeling this way means that its time to ask him where exactly do you stand in his life!! And try to explain to him that you do not feel very comfortable about him talking to her a lot! Its always good to get the right answer and the only person who can provide you with the right answer is him!
There is nothing to lose if you ask, at least you will know where your going towards. always good to know in which direction your heading!
2006-06-22 04:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are yall? I'm gonna guess about 16 or so, depending on a whole bunch of circumstances, just be the girl you are and if he dumps you to go back out with the pushy one? Then his lost, if he is the great guy you think he is then he will stay with you. Good Luck
2006-06-22 04:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by nicktomlinson423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, is he good enough for you? Any man who needs to keep a back up booty call or another woman on the line must have a low self esteem. If he is not willing or able to commit to you totally then HE is not worth YOUR time. Beat feet before you get hurt or get and STD.
2006-06-22 04:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask him what the status is between him and his ex. If he gets upset then he might feel like he is getting cornered and then you become the pushy one
2006-06-22 04:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety....If it's meant to be you'll stay together... Love is very powerful.....Pushiness has nothing to do with it...
You wouldn't want him to be living a lie?
It's always better to part ways if the feelings aren't mutual......
Talk to him.....
Tell him how you feel......
and ask him to be honest with you....
I always think it's better to get hurt earlier than later.........
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 04:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Cristal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes the abuse, slap him around a bit and show him whose boss.
2006-06-22 04:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are good enough for him
2006-06-22 04:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋