me and my girlfriend have a GREAT sex life, it is just perfect, but all of a sudden, she said that we have been making love, no just having sex....i'm confused, is it that im not paying attention to what has changed or is it that she is feeling differently about your little "thumbles"??
2006-06-22 04:42:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sex is connecting physically, making love is connecting emotionally
2006-06-22 04:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Laura H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I woud tend to think that she is starting to feel more for you than just the initial sexual attraction...don't get me wrong, just sex is awesome but after awhile, it grows into something more, you begin to look at the other person's face when they are sleeping and just memorize every aspect of them.....she must be falling in love with you...sometimes after sex, I will even cry because I have sooo much feelings for my man and I can't seem to explain them but I know that I'm happy and I guess I just express it by shedding tears...I know that this sounds wierd but I've heard that a lot of women do this.....hopefully you feel the same way about her and you can continue having a great relationship but if you don't feel the same way then I think you need to have a talk with her so that she doesn't go on thinking that there is way more between you guys....girls feelings are quite sensitve in this respect and we hate to be led on by anyone who isn't sure as to what they want.....if your not sure yet....just be honest and tell her, save yourself and her a lot of heartache.
Good Luck!
2006-06-22 04:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex with anyone but to really make love to someone is to share a love between the two of you. To make love is to try and put all those feelings of love into physically showing that person how much you love them. Having sex is doing it and enjoying it to get off.
2006-06-22 04:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand making love is a feeling that shows of true love and passion for that person where as having sex you are just having fun and enjoying the moment and then go home.
Her feelings have changed because she sees the difference and you haven't picked up on it just yet, but one day you will pick up on it when something comes along and makes you think about her in a way that will make you say I enjoy making love with her. Because it says that you are truly in love with her.
I hope I have gave you a good reasonable answer and Good luck! :)
2006-06-22 04:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is purely physical, it's about pleasure and usually selfish. Making love is a connection on an emotional level, it involves feelings and emotion, intimacy and closeness, the physical aspects aren't as important at that point.
2006-06-22 04:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Right personally i think its the same thing but it really depends on how you have ben doing it, For play kissing talking after wards, Being passianate about it that kinda stuff thats making love, but having sex is just that having sex no taliking getting right down to business and no passion just plain sex.
2006-06-22 04:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by missknowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex - 2 people are involved.
Making love - A couple are involved
2006-06-22 07:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Paul M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is when you stop to check that they're ok, or when you ask her what she wants to do. Sex is when you both strip off and get rid of tension, without thinking of how the other person is but just trying to get the release.
2006-06-22 04:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. Making Love is sweeter because you really do love that person. Having Sex is more violent and random, because you just do it, sometimes even without your partners consent. Having Sex is what criminals and rapists think of doing. Making love happens between proper lovers.
2006-06-22 05:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by frostie_icicle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is sweet and gently toching and kissing and fingerbanging.just to have sex is get right in and get off and be done,dont worry about kissing and taking your time.sometimes you have to change sex to keep the other persons interest up.But I dont know how two woman do it,I have never got see that yet.
2006-06-22 04:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have 'sex' with a stranger but you can only make love with your 'lover'. A subtle difference but one that is very important to some people ............ 'I love you' is next on the list (or may be it has or should have been said already???).
2006-06-22 04:46:34 · answer #11 · answered by nickthesurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋