how come girls help me.... guys maybe?

Question

i have like, lets just say 50 friends that are girls and like 30 friends that are guys, the ratio seems about right
whats wrong with me, how come i cant get a GF ? or someone to like me atleast.... ?!!?!?!? how come theyre all just friends with me ??
im a great guy in every possible way......

Answer 1

Now come on, do you really have like 50 male friends and like 30 female friends? That's hard to believe. Do you know the definition of a friend? A real friend?

This word was actually harder to define than I thought it would be. To get started, I checked the dictionary that stated a friend is "a person who knows and likes another, a person who favours and supports and a person who belongs to the same side or group."

By those definitions I have hundreds, maybe thousands, of friends, but I truly believe it goes beyond these definitions. A friend must do much more than like you. To me, a friend is someone who knows all about you and likes you anyway. Being a friend means more than recognizing that no one is perfect, it means accepting it.

I, like most people, have many flaws. My true friends not only tolerate these weaknesses but also love me because of them. They either help me see them myself without dwelling on them or they even help me to overcome some of these weaknesses. A friend is someone who doesn't ask you to change but helps you to grow.

The most important quality a friend can demonstrate is loyalty. This means standing by you when the going gets a little rough, not just in the good times. It means standing up for you at all times, not letting others demean you in any way, and never taking advantage of you or treating you badly.

Being supportive is yet another important quality in a friendship. This means cheering for you when things go your way, and being there during the bad times. Good friends allow you to make mistakes that you can learn from and forgive you for them. Loyalty, support, honesty and acceptance are so important to me that I would rather have 5 friends that fit my definition as opposed to 1000 "friends" that fit the dictionary definition.

Unlike family, we choose our friends. If your "friends" aren't all of the things that are important to you, then you should ask yourself why you are calling them a friend.

Maybe one of the 30 females who like to be more than a friend. Good luck hun

Answer 2

Maybe some of your girl friends want more and you just haven't noticed? Most guys are clueless when it comes to girls hinting that they like them. I'd start by looking at your girl friends. If you think there could be something more, ask them out. If that's not possible, check out your guy friends..........do any of them have girlfriends who may have friends they could set you up with?

Answer 3

well maybe your not putting out the rite signals ... do you like any of those 50 female friends more than just friends if no maybe thats why your becoming friends with all the women & not become a couple just get some guts & ask a girl out

Answer 4

Mabey they do like you but are to scared to make the first move . Mabey she is wanting you to let her know your into her. Or mabey your too flirtatoius and theese chicks just aint diggin that vibe your giving off to them.

Answer 5

Good things come to those who wait. Dont react much on such things. Be cool and normal. U will find ur dreamgirl one day soon.

Answer 6

Maybe your more comfortable with guys, know what I meen,lol jk, I find if you act like you dont want them they want you more, duno, but try that maybe it'll work 4 u too

Answer 7

I'm sure one of your female friends like you as more than a friend, they're just to shy. Don't worry it'll happen, do you like any of your female friends?

Answer 8

maybe u r trying too hard or have u even asked them out

Answer 9

are you possibly trying to hard or looking desperate? relax, it will happen

Answer 10

a lil stuck on your self ,aint ya?