i heard this message and all it said was hi it's so and so give me a call. he claims that he's not messing around that someone else must of given her his number????
2006-06-22 04:30:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldnt take that to seriously you dont even know what or if he did anything in the first place..............
2006-06-22 04:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I hope that I am wrong. Based on my recent experiences, I am a little angry at the opposite sex, but I will try to help you as best I can.
1) What type of relationship do you have? Do you both have friends of the opposite sex?
2) If he heard a message from an unfamiliar male on your phone, how would he react?
3) Do you really think that "someone else" gave out his number?
See, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but mainly because I know that I am not deceitful, I assume others are not, as well. My husband began acting suspicious and I noticed that there was a "Sam" in his cell phone who kept calling/text messaging. So, I called "Sam" and "Sam" was really "Sara" who he had been seeing for six months. He denies that they are more than friends, but men LIE. It is unfortunate, but true. My advice to you is that if you have invested time/love into this man, then believe him. But, keep this incident in your mind for future reference. The signs of a cheater are always there, but we choose to ignore the facts because we always believe that it couldn't happen or "he loves me". Keep an open mind and see what happens. Good luck, darling.
P.S. I don't mean to sound incredibly pessimistic, there are a few good men out there, just don't be naive.
2006-06-22 04:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an interesting photo Fletch.
I don't think I'd be going through my boyfriends voice mail to begin with because that's a little intrusive. However, there's nothing wrong with a guy having a few friends that are girls .... I mean you do trust him right?? The problem here is that he's denying he knows her... he could've saved his own @ss by just saying she was a friend instead of lying. The fact that he's lying makes you wonder what he's hiding.
By the way, if you're really that concerned you can check the phone bills and see if he's received any other calls from that number, or if he's called that number himself.
2006-06-22 04:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually been through this. It was almost the same exact message. The message on my man's phone said "Hi, this is so and so, give me a call on so and so's cell phone, the number is...." I asked him about it and told him to call the person back in front of me. It ended up being the wrong number.
2006-06-22 04:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who it is. Call the number back and see who it was (but don't start yelling at her, she may not know he has a girlfriend). If he is lying about it, he's obviously hiding something. Nobody else gave this girl his number! That's the wrost lie I've heard in a long time!
2006-06-22 04:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happen to me a couple weeks ago. It turn out it was the other woman. I was so mad, but if he has never lied to you before like this it was probably a mistake. It might be his friend. I would still call the girl and act nonchalant. Just ask her what's up with your boyfriend and her. If she says she is talking to him don't get mad at her beat his a**. Leave him and move on. If it is his friend talk to her and be friendly and apologize to your boyfriend for thinking that he was cheating
2006-06-22 04:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she say his name in the message? does his voicemail give his name? Maybe it was honestly a wrong number.. maybe it's someone at a business that he's been working with.. maybe someone DID give her his number. Is she someone he admits to knowing? Maybe ask him to call her back in your presence so you can BOTH figure it out together. If he won't do it, take it for the obvious cheating that it is and move on with your own life.
2006-06-22 04:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean you never know, maybe he's telling the truth. I know I have had friends give my number out to people I don't know. But come to find out that they have seen a picture of me and was interested and got my number my friend. Don't over react, investigate first.
2006-06-22 04:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds kinda weird that he didnt give her the number. But if it was my boyfriend I would ask and if he didnt come up with an answer I liked I would call her back and ask her in the nicest way possible who she was to him. But if you dont trust him you shouldnt be with him.
2006-06-22 04:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop it but not forget it because it couldve been that he lied to you or that he didnt..guys are very hard to understand...my boyfriend did that but he said that that was a girl he was talking to like messing around thinking it was my friend setting him up to see what he does..i believed him but i didnt forget it andf it never happened again.
2006-06-22 05:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i wouldnt be worried if he said it was just a friend, but that was a bad lie he told so maybe hes up to something
keep a sharp eye out
check up on his email on messages wen hes working or somthing
i know that sounds bad but u need to know the truth, if ur not gonna get it from him
2006-06-22 04:32:38 · answer #11 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋