guys that respect and love them and care for them and will do whatever it takes to make them happy?
2006-06-22 04:36:34 · 27 answers · asked by lil_drumerboy72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The "good ones" as usually too nice to us.
Its the thrill of the chase that most like - playing hard to get.
Try being a bit meaner towards a girl and they'll love ya. That's what I've noticed about my friends. They like that guys that are mean to them. Don't know why though.
2006-06-22 04:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is an illusioned psycholgy. It may seem like it in a guy's point of view, but you can see it in another perspective: girls usually just choose people whom they can be comfartable with and have a personal connection with. Usually, gentlemen (lets call those guys that "respect and love" as such) are boring, rigid people who are tied down to their own rules. Woman, by nature, is "alive". They need to feel that "life", some sort of connection with reality. A good, loving respectful man is just too boringly dream-like. A semi-bastard, adventurous, rule-breaker one is more "real". It may or may not make them happy in the long run, but they're addicted to "reality" meanwhile.
love+peace
2006-06-22 04:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, I know...sometimes we jsut can't think straight. I finally have my head on right now and KNOW that I deserve the best and I deserve to be treated well. I was scared of my boyfriend when we firts started going out because he treated me so well. Its like he was so good to me that I know if anything happenned in the relationship I would be soo hurt, whereas if he was a jerk to begin with, I knew that if we broke up I wouldn't be missing much. It is hard to put your confiudence in a guy, especially one that is so good to you because there is a lot to loose in a good relationship. I realized though that I deserve to be treated well! Just wait a little while longer and you will meet a girl that will come to the same realizations that I have.
2006-06-22 04:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder too that, because i have push away the sweetish guys ever and i regret it no because i know i will never find another that will treat me good and nice enough to love me for me not because of my looks or anything. Now i feel bad and in wonder why i choose the asshole over a nice sweet guy but that shows the show how life is and it sucks.....
2006-06-22 04:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by jen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're young and stupid, and it takes women different amounts of time to grow out of their young stupidity. Thankfully I never really went through that. But I stood by perplexed as my best friend pushed away good guys and wanted @$$holes. But she grew out of it too after high school. Don't worry. It gets better. Later on in life the playing field will level. =)
2006-06-22 04:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A respectable girl wouldn't...a guy that respects me and loves me is what I look for, and would never let that go!
2006-06-22 04:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by XOXO! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goes both ways sometimes a guy gets a good girl and pushes her away.It all depends on the individual.If i get a good guy i won't push him away.if i don't love him i'll let him know from early,save him from getting hurt,then i won't be the bad girl.
2006-06-22 04:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Darkiee D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do all guys think they are good? Something is lacking in you that makes the girls you chase not want you. Find out what it is or start chasing different girls.
2006-06-22 04:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by sweetblonde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
V Girls prefer naughty guys
2006-06-22 04:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by tootooshdgr8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make you available for the good girls
2006-06-22 04:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋