should couple keep themselves pure sexually prior to marriage?

Question

whats the pros and cons of this.
what's the reason for your decision either way

Answer 1

There are as many answers to that question as there are people. Interestingly enough, both parties often have differing views.

It all depends on who you are and what you want out of your relationship.

Evaluate your personality, upbringing, religious values and the level of trust. Do you trust your partner enough to share the most intimate of moments with her? Are you the kind of person who thrives on closeness, or do you prefer to make sure that she's "the one" first? How deeply in love are you? What role does religion or moral values play? By evaluating the answers to the above questions, you establish your position.

Second, what do you want out of your relationship? Have both of you agreed to be mutually exclusive? Is marriage a common goal? Or maybe you're merely looking for companionship and prefer it in a sexual way?

In my opinion, sex can make or break a relationship. If you do decide to proceed with it, your bond will become stronger than ever before. On the flip side, however, if you rush things you may find yourselves sexually incompatible which may very well ruin everything; plus it will make your sexual encounter a dismal disappointment.

Before you make your decision, I would advise you to takt the time to think things through very carefully.

In any case, always use protection. No one has a body to die for.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

thats really just up to the couple themselves forsome ppl its againts thier personal beliefs or morals.....the benefits can be u know what ur getting what if u get married and the persion sucks at sex then umight have an affair to get what u want..i mean u shudnt base marriage on sexual performance but some ppl will. the cons can be u had sex and it gets boring and nothing new commes into the bedroom but if u are truly in love u can always make it work...its up to the couple to make that decision.

Answer 3

I think it really depends on your morals and religious beliefs. I think of it like this and I know some don't see it as being good but Will you ever buy a car before you test drive it? Not me before I want to make a commitment to some one I want to test drive him, because, if he isn't sexually pleasing, I don't want to have to stray to get some good action then it is called cheating. I know it sounds wrong so that it why it your up to how you feel.

Answer 4

Absolutely! Being sexually active causes ALOT of damage in a relationship! Waiting to be with the one person you will spend your life with can make it easy, unless one is full of lies and decieving.

I say its better to be pure till marriage for the purpose of emotional effect and heartache.

Answer 5

If you both vowed to wait till your married then just wait but the reality of life today is that people dont wait, they want to test the waters before jumping in. If you can wait then i say wait, if you cant just make sure you both want to do it and then by all means taste the goods before you purchase!

Answer 6

thats the RIGHT thing to do
but screw that lol
could u wait like, 25 years to have sex?
especially wen pressure, and love in highskool
couldnt work for me

Answer 7

#1 reason, it's biblical. Also having something that only you and your spouse have shared makes it special, also no fear of diseases.

Answer 8

i think so, but sometimes stuff happens