My in laws will not stop their bully kids from hitting or throwing stuff at my daughter. This has gone on through the years. Everyone is in DENIAL because there were only 2 sons.
I feel my mother in law favors the other son, because it is his kids that act like animals. My sister in law (physcho) her sons have through the years tried to hurt my daughter, first it was just the one son who is can you believe it in HS High School the other son is in Jr. High/Middle School.
Now I have had it, it has been tooo many years of this BS,
so I am trying to cut total ties. We see each other 2 times a year. Once my mother in law passes some day. We will NOT ever see them again if I can help it..
Woud YOU stop seeing your sibling if they NEVER stopped their animal bully sons for trying to hurt your kids??? It's been like for over 10 years.
2006-06-22 05:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh my,....for a moment there I thought you were talking about my sister. I saw your other question, which I will also respond to later. I absolutely know what you are talking about. I won't give you details, but ...just let me tell you this....sister or sister-in-law...if you feel the person is abusive and continues being so- even after a confrontation or two...definitely: do not feel guilty about putting a stop to it by not being around that particular person. Let the other people know that it's because of that person that you guys are keeping your distance, so they don't think you are mad with them. You know, sometimes family can be such a pain,...but being abused and nobody is putting an end to it can not be healthy for anyone. Again: stop being around her! Just stop.
2006-06-22 15:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I do limit the amount of time that I see my sis because her son is violent to my 2 youngest children. My children and her son are not allowed to be in an area together without constant supervision.
There have been a handful of incidences over the past few years. But they were severe, attempted drownings, and him throwing my little ones down the stairs.
I did confront her about the drownings and I was called a "B" and told I didn't understand how hard it was for her to have a child like him. So, I keep my distance. We show up for major holidays at my mom's and that is the only time we see each other.
We have to protect our children; I don't blame you at all!
2006-06-22 05:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a responsibility to protect your children from abuse. If your siblings permit their children to bully yours, then you absolutely should keep them separated for your own kids' safety.
Think of the emotional scars that could develop - would you want your children growing up asking why their mom didn't do more to stop them from getting hurt?
2006-06-22 05:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing. Your daughters health and welfare should always come first. If those little bullies hurt your daughter, how would you feel, if you knew you could have prevented it ???
Good move on your part !!!
2006-06-22 05:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would tell my child if someone hits u hit back or u tell the kids that are being bad to stop or u will whip their butts and if the parents dont like it the should teach their kids not to hit
2006-06-22 05:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋