I went on my first date with this guy last night. We talked about everything under the sun. After 5 hours neither one of us wanted to go home, but we had to work today. What I want to know is does anyone think that it is possible to fall in love with some one after such a short time? This is not the first time that we have talked but it was our first date. Anyone else have an experience like this?
2006-06-22 05:20:27 · 27 answers · asked by TR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of you wondering if it is related to sex it is not. I told him right off the bat that there will be no sex from me until I am married.
2006-06-22 08:37:04 · update #1
Yes I have and we fell in love stay tuned to the rest of the story
2006-06-22 05:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by catfan99 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sure I've had it lotsa times, it's because you're new to eachother (at least relatively) and you're both excited about seing eachother, and probably both interested in starting things up from here, but I think there's a good reason why ppl test "proposing" boyfrends (or vise versa) and wait and observe patiently b4 they get down to it. For instance, thesame thing could happen with a guy who just wants sex from you...bcos he's so attracted to you he's all gleeful being with you and giving you enough words and attention to turn you on, but watch it gurl.
Like my frend said, the idea is to interract with him to a level that you're sure that even when (and if) you have sex, the person won't change and things won't change for the worse between *you. You can't know whether you are in love yet, until you are in a successfull thriving relationship with this guy.
2006-06-22 13:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i've had that experience its nice! i think u sort of fall in love like u form a strong connection and that is what makes u fall in love over time. thats what happened to me iknew when i saw him and we went out the first time he was the one..it took about a month before we both said i love u and we're married now so good luck!
2006-06-22 12:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very possible to have longing feelings for someone on a first date,however first dates does not make a relationship.(smile)
long lasting relationships are made the old fashion way through trails and errors,joys and sorrows.
i think one of the biggest problems we have in society is this microwave concept.
we tend to want everything right now.
what i can tell you sis is this, take your time,find out who he really is(and that can take some time)
but if he's worthy he'll wait for you.
you know what i'm saying.......make him wait,because we don't want to FALL.....IN LOVE.
you want to BE loved.
2006-06-22 12:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by tomio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can. I know a couple that went on a date like the one you described and then they married 13 weeks later. Their marriage lasted 30 years until she died of cancer. So yes is can happen.
2006-06-22 13:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Namcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it love so fast, since both of you just went on a first date and you had just gotten knowing him. Its that fresh feeling of courtship that has you all excited and high, its normal to feel that way for a good start on a relationship.
I would say its a good start on falling in love, hope you guys make it there ^o^
2006-06-22 12:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, it is possible, i had the same experience with my boyfriend when we first met. i knew he was the one for me after our first date, he made me feel like the most important person in the world and still does. we have been together for 12 months now and we live together as well, my life couldn't be better, i say never let a good thing pass you by and go with your instincts.
good luck!
2006-06-22 12:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Sometimes you just click with someone. I felt that way about this guy after a week. Right now we are on the outs though (his fault) but as crazy as it sounds, I still have this 'feeling' about him. Call it the 'Soul Mate Theory' or whatever but there is just this certain feeling you get about someone. Their conversation stimulates you but in order to be in love, remember, they have to stimulate more than your mind (not trying to be nasty or anything), They have to stimulate your mind, body & soul. Good luck!
2006-06-22 12:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by WhatheHell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are very happily married....and thats exactly what happened. We fell in love with each other during our first date. Life has been wonderful ever since, so YES it can happen....anyone who would say NO just hasn't experienced this yet.
2006-06-22 12:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by StephNLee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my man for a long time and girl that was just how our relationship began, i knewi loved him but did not say any thing about it cuz i thought he would think i was crazy, but only a week later he told me he was in love with me and could not imagain his life with out me, i was blown away bc i felt the same way, we have been going stong eversince, engaged and expexting our first child any day. so YES it can happen if your heart is saying hes the one, then listen to your heart. good luck!!!
2006-06-22 12:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋