2006-06-22 05:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by floresgabbie@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're romanticizing the relationship--
The TRUE love of your life would never, never, ever, ever cheat on you.
Do you think about him because you want him back?
Remember this about cheaters and beaters.....If they do it once they'll surely do it again.
Close that chapter, change the channel, get a breath of fresh air, stand up straight and tall and walk into a respectful relationship with....... yourself.
2006-06-22 05:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by smartgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in that same exact boat. I find myself wanting him back and I know its not right and I gotta be strong but i've been thru this so many times and I always end up the one hurt. I think that you should just embrace the love and time your shared together and accept that first and then try accepting that you can no longer be with this person because you're not sure if you could ever trust him again. You'll be fine and even though you may feel its the end of the world, its not. Life goes on and you just gotta make sure you rise everyday knowing its a new day and life is going and its not gonna wait for you to stop feeling sad. Its waiting for you to come out and make the day the most. Another thing I do is, well i'm not sure what your beliefs are, but I prayed every morning for myself and for my ex. I prayed that even though we're not together I hope he realizes some things in life and he has a good day. You just wish for the happiness for other people and the acceptance of the path your life is taking. Everything happens for a reason. You're apart from him for a reason and even if is cuz he cheated, its something deeper than that. I still think my ex is the love of my life and I still talk to him and its really hard but i'm better off talking to him and trying to be friends with him rather than not talking to him at all. I hope my little speech helps hee hee.
2006-06-22 06:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by so many to choose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that can heal a broken heart is time. Give yourself some time to grieve and time to get over him. It'll get easier every day. I haven't seen my ex in two years and I still think about him. Time heals all wounds.
2006-06-22 06:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweet! Do ur best to be the best! Make him cry coz' he lost the most wonderful women in his ****** life! U gonna discover then - he is just disgusting animal and u don't need him anymore.
Pure love brings u the most beautiful fairy tale one day coz' just few people can follow their feelings! Wait a little bit. Stay free. And smile now!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 05:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it gets easier over time. i still love my ex a little and he was a genuine *ss. we were together for 14 months and he had even told his mom he was thinking of changing my last name. and then i find out about his other girlfriend that is 5 months pregnant that he wasn't gonna tell me about because i didn't need to know. He's bone stupid but even after that i still love him a little. I don't want to be with him though.
2006-06-22 05:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are human, it 's not very possible. Even though someone treats us so badly, when we truly love someone, our heart will never stop. I wish I could tell you that you will forget about him, but you wont. Give it time, and your mind will be pre-occupied with more positive things, but until then, try to keep yourself busy.
2006-06-22 05:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to Church, and get your life in-check.
Then you want worry about these little things.
When your boyfriends SEE'S the change in your life, maybe you can help each other.
Have a good week.
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2006-06-22 05:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever forget him (been there), but you just acknowledge that you will always have a place in your heart for him and move on.
2006-06-22 05:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u forget ur husb even after tht he showed uncare for his son?.. We woman are very emotional... we have to be strong.....
2006-06-22 05:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by naina_k_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you ever hear the saying "you never forget your first cheating/ lying/ conniving/ thoughtless/...etc.etc love?
2006-06-22 17:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋