Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

My boyfriend have been going out since Jan, and we were doing great until a couple of days ago! It's like the realtionship is steady, not to much excitement in it, and sometimes it doesn't seem like it's ever going to get their! I thought that I loved him, but lately I am not sure, I don't know if I am just moody, or the relationship with my first true love is over with. Is it normal in a relationship to take a break from ur partner? Do u think I should take a break from him/ talk to him, oor just break off the relationship entirely. Please help me! Also tday when he was leaving he told me that he loved me, and for some reason, I couldn't say those words!

2006-06-19 14:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by babyg_co07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you like uncircumcised penises? And if you never had one, would you turn a guy down because of it?

2006-06-19 14:50:45 · 26 answers · asked by nuked25 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 15 years old and am now 19. I don't really know where our relationship is going but I would like to and don't know if I should ask him or just let things keep going on how they are. I don't want to freak him out and make him think that we have to get married tomorrow. I think that I just want to know if we are ever going to get married or have kids. I don't want this right now but I just want reassurance that one day we will. So what should I do?

2006-06-19 14:48:19 · 4 answers · asked by l_a_hart 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Think about it for a second. What is the reason and where is the motivation coming from? Do most people have childrean more or less because that's what they think they're 'supposed to do'?

Is there a reason for having children that isn't a selfish one? "I want to have kids because I want to love them." "I want to have kids because I want to have a family (just like/better than I did when I was a kid)." "I want to have kids because I love my spouse and I want to see how our kids would turn out." Or my personal favorite: "I want to have kids so someone can take care of me when I'm old." In case you don't see the pattern, there are a lot of 'I's and 'me's in those sentences.

Please help me understand.

2006-06-19 14:46:27 · 25 answers · asked by btraglio 1 in Family

my best friend passed away 1 1/2 year ago. i've been aquainted to the family since 10 years ago. the girl is 5 years younger. she did mention waiting for 5 years to think about relationships and most recently, 7 years before getting married.

i can't stop thinking about her and i really would like to stop pondering and would like to find the end result. it would really break me if i'm rejected. this is making me feel like a wuss. i've never felt like this before my entire life.

would leaving a stalk of rose in her room be a good idea to tell her slowly, kind of giving her the "vibes" before the earthquake?

plus, i think she knows i like her and she is giving me mixed signals. she did stop talking to me once for a whole month until recently and we have had small exchanges.. sigh.. what should i do.. what should i do??

what is the best way to tell her should i decide to do so?
should i wait out and then probably lose out to some douche who deserves her no more than me? help!!

2006-06-19 14:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't get why my g/f gets pissed of when i leave a mark on her neck? If i got a hicky, I'd be showing it off to the guys at work, and be like, oh ya and i got one a LOT lower too. ;-)

2006-06-19 14:45:45 · 29 answers · asked by thedawn 2 in Singles & Dating

I am sicilian and my fiance is black. We have been together for a really long time and we still get a lot of crap from females, mostly black ones. We will be walkin in the mall and women will look at me and manke faces, i dont get it, one girl said that my man was a sell out cuz he went white, and another asked if the hood was all outta good sistas? I dont understand bc race and color has never been an issue before and now i feel like im always being scrutinized for snagging a "good" black man. How do you ladies feel about it? do you really feel a man is a sell out if hes with a "white" girl. And im not even white im sicilian.

2006-06-19 14:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by austinandjomasmama 2 in Singles & Dating

Upto early 20th century the dress of the traditional German Executioners or "henkers" were tail-coat and top hat, with white gloves
in their hand. You can see an image of an 20th century German
executioner in google image--keyword(das beil von wandsbek).
we know the mediaval dress was some kinda hood and gown.
What was the traditional dress of Swedish,Danish and Norwegian
executioners in the late 19th and early 20th century?

2006-06-19 14:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by Mahfuz R 1 in Singles & Dating

What shall I do to prevent this horific nightmares from my childhood...how do I cope?

2006-06-19 14:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK.. This guy is like my first true love and he had to leave for Germany and I don't know what I would do without him. But he promised me that he would come back. I just don't know what to do in the situation I'm in.

2006-06-19 14:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by s777 2 in Singles & Dating

away when you catch him looking at you, does it mean he doesn't like you. I always hear that if the guy likes you he'll look away. What if he's shy?

2006-06-19 14:42:15 · 9 answers · asked by nomucatoday 3 in Singles & Dating

okay...my big sister and i do everything together...if its from going shopping, to going to the moveis...but shes gone on vacation with her fiance...and i am so gonna ,miss her...what am i supposed to do in the mean time until she comes home?

2006-06-19 14:41:40 · 21 answers · asked by abby_girl90 1 in Family

ive been with my girl for 3 years and she broke up with me
after i took her to maui and treated her like a queen i know she loved me but she wants her time she was crying alot cause ive only been cool to her and she feels guilty , she has a daughter that i miss too what should i do

2006-06-19 14:41:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am always asking my mom about my father.And she always changes what we are taking about.And i am sick and tried of her not telling me about my own dad!!!!!

should i do something about it.
please help me

2006-06-19 14:39:53 · 12 answers · asked by Heather Alcala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want this clear cause so many of my guy buddies act all............abercrombie and all drama queen like. Some can protray the vally girl thig quite well. But this doesn't mean their gay right?

2006-06-19 14:38:10 · 20 answers · asked by HeArTsArEcLoSe 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 14:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by jransmac 1 in Family

i have a 13 yr old boy who i think was on the internet and deleted his history so i didnt know where he went didnt know if their was a way to look after he deleted it

2006-06-19 14:37:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

you dont know what you did, and other people tell you what you did the next day...................

2006-06-19 14:37:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

about 8week ago i find out that my better half been hanging out with ex

2006-06-19 14:36:58 · 3 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not insecure or nethin, but im just curious on what u guys think on how i look. I think im kinda pretty, what about u?
myspace.com/boricuababy4eva

2006-06-19 14:36:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 14:35:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Together for 10 years. ROM for 3 years. He keeps saying I force him to settle down by commiting to a flat which he can't afford. Last year, he met a girl while on an overseas trip, and they have been on a long-distance relationship ever since. But we still love each other. I'm trying to understand how other girls will deal with such a situation, if divorce is not the only option.

2006-06-19 14:35:27 · 25 answers · asked by Gal-alive? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 1 1/2 yrs to a man who is so unemotional. He claims to be happy all the time. Nothing "gets to him". Not that I want trouble for him but it seems he is disconnected whether it be the birth of our son or someone close to us dying. I will add he is a firefighter and I know that in that line of duty they have to have an on/off button. It just seems his is always off. He professes his love for me daily.....but does not show it in his actions. This is my second marriage (my first one was much more deep emotionally) Long story as to how and why it ended, it is in the past anyway. I just love this man so deeply and wish so much that we could share a deeper connection. In the beginning I thought we did but as I look back I realize it was all me! I was always having to do all the "work". After a while I layed low to see if he would step up and when he did not I began to resent all that I did for him/us. Then I went through a stage of what I would call pitiful....almost

2006-06-19 14:33:28 · 10 answers · asked by momkmmt4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got marred and my husband has custody of his two boys. I don’t have any children yet. Their mother doesn’t seem to want them she only picks them up on the weekends, Friday 7pm and drops them back Sun 11AM. What is the point of even picking them up? And I am so tired of his kids there always fighting and making noise. My husband promised me when we were dating that their mother would take them~~~ HA! Still didn’t happen. Women should keep their children because stepmother DONT want their kids either. My only concern is going to be my children!

2006-06-19 14:33:07 · 23 answers · asked by debbs000007 2 in Family

My boyfriend constantly cheated on me but denied it. I met a guy that I had so much in common with. I told my boyfriend about him out of guilt or love...whatever and i stoped talking to my love for my boy. My boy continued to cheat on me while I was in school so I got back in touch with my love and we hit it off I also broke up with my boy. We started to have sex and my ex-boy noticed that I was not as intrested in what he was doing n e more and started suspectin me of finding some 1 else. I didnt tell him the truth though because it was none of his business. To make a long story short my stupid *** told him and he came to my school crying on his knees begging to get back with him. Now I dont really feel the same about him n e more but my love was not showing me what I wanted. However when I was with him I felt a real connection, I think I didnt want to b alone and my boy was saying things that I wanted to hear. now im living with my boy and thinkin of my love every day. HelpME

2006-06-19 14:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 14:31:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I sent a letter to an estranged cousin of mine about two weeks ago. (He's in his eighties; I'm seventeen.) He's a college professor and since I assumed he would be busy, I included in the letter: "I'm aware that you must be very busy, so please respond at your convenience." Like I said, it's two weeks later. Should I continue to wait, or should I send another letter saying "You may have missed my first letter.."?

2006-06-19 14:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by Strange Design 5 in Family

I want to know if the guy im inlove with.. its really inlove with me... he said he is but i want to know how can i prove it?? Like, the way he talks or something.. i just want to know how do you know when he really loves you..

2006-06-19 14:31:25 · 3 answers · asked by ChikaMaliciosa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got asked out thursday afternoon for a friday nite dinner. I said yes. When Friday came he told me he was feeling sick.So when he told me he was sick i asked if he wanted to pass on the dinner . He said let me see how i feel and i'll let u know. Well he told me he wouldn't be much fun and ask if i was ok with it. Well truthfully i wasn't .But i covered my feelings and said yes i was ok with not going out. And had to pass on the date. Should I believe him that he was really sick and not making up an excuse to get out of the date. He says he has no girlfriend. Well today he ignored me totally at work , never said a word to me all day.Passed thru like i wasn't even there. Never mentioned anything about Friday.Also all weekend never IM message me. So what do you think I should do? Believe him or MOVE on

2006-06-19 14:30:16 · 28 answers · asked by Makemeahappygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 14:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by No1Bossy 1 in Singles & Dating