I have been with my boyfriend since I was 15 years old and am now 19. I don't really know where our relationship is going but I would like to and don't know if I should ask him or just let things keep going on how they are. I don't want to freak him out and make him think that we have to get married tomorrow. I think that I just want to know if we are ever going to get married or have kids. I don't want this right now but I just want reassurance that one day we will. So what should I do?
2006-06-19 14:48:19 · 4 answers · asked by l_a_hart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think maby it is time for the two of you to open up and learn how each of you feel about the relation ship. You will know when the time is right to open up to him. You shouldn't be affried of his responce. I think he would probley be glad that you are sharing your feeling with him instead of all ways trying to figure them out him self. Talking is good for a healthy relation ship. You should try it it dose help. Good luck...............
2006-06-19 16:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, you don't want to be 25 and find out he was just having fun hanging out with you when he gets married to another woman. You have to start planning for your future if he's not going to be in it then dump him and find someone who will.
2006-06-19 17:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by marknliz_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would tell him exactly what you said here.
I don't think it would freak him out.
But guys tend to get nervious when they here"marriage".
I wouldn't use the word.
I would mention that I want him next to me when I get older.
Do you love him and want to get married?
I think it's up to you too.
2006-06-19 15:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by mico C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this to him what you just said to us, why are you afraid of your boyfriend?
2006-06-19 14:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋