My boyfriend have been going out since Jan, and we were doing great until a couple of days ago! It's like the realtionship is steady, not to much excitement in it, and sometimes it doesn't seem like it's ever going to get their! I thought that I loved him, but lately I am not sure, I don't know if I am just moody, or the relationship with my first true love is over with. Is it normal in a relationship to take a break from ur partner? Do u think I should take a break from him/ talk to him, oor just break off the relationship entirely. Please help me! Also tday when he was leaving he told me that he loved me, and for some reason, I couldn't say those words!
2006-06-19 14:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by babyg_co07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is one of lifes most difficult journeys; I was recently told this by a counselor...You say he is your first true love? Why was he your true love? Is that still true today?
What type of feeling do you get when you are with him? When he kisses you or talks to you do you still get butterflies? Have you had good times in your past with him? Are they times you will cherish or can deal without?
Why couldn't you tell him that you loved him? Look deep down before you do anything...take a day (not a "break") for yourself and do what makes you happy; see how often you think of him or wish to call to talk to him? Then take him out on an exciting date; a picnic or romantic walk or something you would like...
If you love him it will be there. If you just dont have the feelings anymore, then you cant force something.
Love is an amazing gift; be thankful for what you had, have and can have in the future.
2006-06-19 15:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by hotmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you two have been seeing each other every single day. You can get sick of someone when you see them so much. I think you should have some days where you just hang out with your girls and him with his boys. Itd be a great break from the good and bad drama. In the end, you two would miss each other so much that the next time you see each other, it would feel like the best time you guys ever had.
2006-06-19 21:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by genius artist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my 1st boyfriend. After u get to know the person you find out whether you really love them or not cause getting to know each other is the fun part but if you dont really love them its not interesting anymore. The best thing u could do is get out of the relationship if its true love you will be 2gether again but me and mines never did. He came back to me but I turned him down I just didnt feel that way about him anymore.
2006-06-19 22:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that he loves you and you couldnt find the words to say then the best thing to do is to break it off....you seem to think that a relationship is going to be filled with excitement all the time and its not there are highs and lows to everything....youre fine with the relationship when its exciting for you and then when its not you think of taking a break....just break up with him and spare him from you only being with him for excitement and not for anything else...
2006-06-19 22:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth taking a break, to see if it helps. I wouldnt break entirely, since you're unsure of your feelings. Leave that option open. Sometimes 'fireworks' arent worth near as much as the 'steady'.
But I'm curious to know what happened a cupla days ago.
Did you happen to see/meet someone who looked interesting???
2006-06-19 21:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way now then there's no need to keep the relationship going especially since this guy loves you. It's time you let him go before it gets more serious and you hurt him.
2006-06-19 21:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you do not love him, so to save yourself more grief and guilt, maybe break up with him. Perhaps you see him more as a close friend?
2006-06-19 22:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by JUJUBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋