I got asked out thursday afternoon for a friday nite dinner. I said yes. When Friday came he told me he was feeling sick.So when he told me he was sick i asked if he wanted to pass on the dinner . He said let me see how i feel and i'll let u know. Well he told me he wouldn't be much fun and ask if i was ok with it. Well truthfully i wasn't .But i covered my feelings and said yes i was ok with not going out. And had to pass on the date. Should I believe him that he was really sick and not making up an excuse to get out of the date. He says he has no girlfriend. Well today he ignored me totally at work , never said a word to me all day.Passed thru like i wasn't even there. Never mentioned anything about Friday.Also all weekend never IM message me. So what do you think I should do? Believe him or MOVE on
2006-06-19 14:30:16 · 28 answers · asked by Makemeahappygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say you move on, go to dinner with someone else and if he says anything then you can say hey, you didn't want to go with me. That sounds really suspicous that he doesn't talk to you the next day at work, I think he had other plans. Go out and have fun and don't wait for him!
2006-06-19 14:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with life. He's just playing on you. Don't wait for someone who is not worth waiting for. You're still young. Sorry to say this but 90% what a guy had said is not true. If he's really concerned about you, he will care for you and not ignoring you. All the best pal in finding another true love.
2006-06-19 14:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by bb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him directly :)
One time, I liked a guy so much, I actually got sick and cancelled because I was so nervous!
Daddyman and I had one date and then we didn't speak to each other for almost a MONTH. (We didn't have sex or anything like that. We were set up by another couple who knew we liked each other. We went out with that couple.) After that date though - he would see me at work and would look away. If I was talking to another guy - he'd glare and look sullen. I finally couldn't stand it. I knew he liked me. I knew I liked him. What was the deal?
I finally decided to just ask him. After I got the nerve to talk to him - it was just a misunderstanding. He thought I didn't like HIM because I didn't give him my number. I thought he didn't like me because he didn't ask. ACK! We realized how stupid we were and have been together since then.
5 years later...we're still together. And we have a beautiful son.
~Maxie
2006-06-19 14:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Maxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Unfortunately, it sounds like you were option #2 for Friday night and his option #1 came through. It's even more unfortunate that you have to work with him. Live and learn and know you're the better person.
2006-06-19 14:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! You never really had anything to begin with so it shouldn't be all that hard. If he didn't try to reschedule during the sick conversation then he isn't interested. He should of talked to you today, you don't want to date a coward anyway now do you?
2006-06-19 14:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girlfriend u shuoldn't be all depressed just cuase some loser ignors u i say do the same play hard-to-get if that dont work find a better guy someone who cares about u and espesially someone who's way cuter and smarter and muscular and just rub it in that dude's face show him off at work take picters of you and him and hang them up in you office right where if he passes by he'll see them and feel so badd about himself
2006-06-19 14:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him what is going on tell him how your feeling.
Ask him if he still wants to go out with you if he says no then just move on if he did that to you he is a dumb loser he isn't worth the trouble K. Well let me no how it goes. Bye now
Alanna
2006-06-19 14:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by apw_lovedove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy enough to say move on but he might be really embarrased and not sure how to approach you about it on asking you out again,when guys really like girls this is sometimes what they do because they dont know what to do,you could always ask him out and see how he answers is he says yes then your worries are over and he just got lost in words not knowing what to say if he makes an excuse then you know to move on
2006-06-19 14:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.....I don't know why he would have asked you out for the following night, then backed out and now not talk to you, but it sounds like something you're better off without.
2006-06-19 14:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he really was sick, or maybe he wasn't. You will have to try to figure that out. And maybe he wasn't saying anything because he was really busy. If you find out he has no interest in you MOVE ON IMMEDIATELY!!
2006-06-19 14:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋