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ive been with my girl for 3 years and she broke up with me
after i took her to maui and treated her like a queen i know she loved me but she wants her time she was crying alot cause ive only been cool to her and she feels guilty , she has a daughter that i miss too what should i do

2006-06-19 14:41:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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either two things are going on here: 1. she's just using you, and using crying to make it so you don't think you've been used, or 2. she's suffering from depression. I lean more towards option 2: I don't think she was just using you if she broke up AFTER maui. Perhaps she just needs time to sort things out. If you truly were as cool to her as you say (which I will take at face value), then perhaps what you might want to do is be her friend for a while. I mean a real friend. help her through the rough times, show her you are a loyal and caring person. once the hardships are over, she will know she can trust you and perhaps you two can get back together again. Be there for her, and let her know that whatever she needs she can count on you to do your best to provide it. Try not to be in situations where you'd want to sleep with her. be upstanding and forthright with her.

Good luck, and I hope you two can end up together and happy again.

2006-06-19 14:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by mystique_365 2 · 13 1

First, learn how to write proper sentences because it's hard to figure out what you're asking when your sentence goes on for a long time without any punctuation and the point of the sentence gets lost in the amount of words you use to convey your point to the readers!! :-) Second, if she left you it was for a reason. Sounds like you don't have much say in what happens next. Don't be pushy with her, let her decide whether she wants you back.

2006-06-19 14:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Smooth_obes 1 · 0 0

You should back away from the relationship until she decides to treat you they way you deserve. You need to go out & spend time with your friends and give her a random call only once in awhile to see how she's doing (to make sure she keeps her mind on you). Once she sees that you are able to go out & have fun & still be cool with her, then she will come back if it's really ment to be.

2006-06-19 14:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by missgoddessrachel 5 · 0 0

No woman leaves because a man has 'treated her too good.' She's either cheating, or never was in love with you...

I know you miss her, but give her time and if she doesn't come back, then you have to move on...

If she's cheating, then she's not missing you. If she never loved you, she's not going to love you any more now...

2006-06-19 14:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0 0

i don't understand y she broke up with u in the first place.mayby she wanted to go a little further in the relationship but did'nt no how to tell u.i think u should give her a call and have a chat with her.u might be surprise that she wants the same thing you want also. GOOD LUCK.

2006-06-19 14:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by inquistive 2 · 0 0

Girls always miss guys. Even if you'd been a dog she'd think about you. My advice to you is to keep being sweet to her. Write her a letter, buy her flowers, ask her where you went wrong. Girls luv persistant guys, and if she has common sense she'll be back.

2006-06-19 15:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany D 1 · 0 0

Hell no she don't miss you. You were probably more of a friend to her, thats why she broke up with you, and now she just feels bad for hurting you.

2006-06-19 14:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by no picture 2 · 0 0

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2017-03-02 07:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

You are so sweet! Tell her this tell her you miss her and that you really want to see her and her daughter. If she says no you can do better than her.

2006-06-19 14:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0 0

she thinks about you but she has move on with her life. she has you in her memories but she is not going to be with you again. just move on

2006-06-19 14:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0 0

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