Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

I was seeing a married man for about 5 months. I know stupid. Karma always kicks ya. He promised me over and over again that his marriage was almost over he was just finishing the technicallities. Long story short he never really ended things with me continued to stay married and is now having an affair with yet another woman (a stripper none the less). I am hurt - I deserve to be hurt because I shouldnt have gotten involved in the first place but still feeling pain like I have never felt before. There are numerous ideas going through my head. I want him to hurt because he lied to me amongst many other people. Should I tell his wife everything? Show her the emails he sent saying how much he didnt want to be with her? How he couldnt wait for us to be a family? All the promises he made me and never kept. I dont think its fair that she isnt aware of all this. She knew about me but not the new chick. Or am I just going to create more problems? They have 2 small kids together as well.

2006-06-19 15:25:16 · 32 answers · asked by Waiting2Exhale 2 in Marriage & Divorce

th Evil of Assumption by: clint

See not with your eyes for your eyes will Anger youand mislead you, Instead follow your heart and breath out with your soul.
Though he Makes her Laugh, Love is Patient and it trusts all. is it your distrust that is leading you to concern? Women come and go. and if you cannot do so little of a thing as trust what makes you think you can make a relationship last?
You see both him and her flirt, you assume she is into him or her? what appears to you as flirting just maybe frendly talk to her.
Heed not to what you see in life for most of the time it will mislead you. Take great care my friends with everything you see. for it will affect you in more ways then your physical state possibly can.

2006-06-19 15:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 15:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by pkemp1021 1 in Family

He goes to his parents about everything and never tells me anything! I just dont know what to do anymore I'm sick of it!

2006-06-19 15:24:36 · 10 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you found out that you're boyfriend is cheating on you and you still love him until nOw... can your love fades in the future????

2006-06-19 15:24:35 · 13 answers · asked by g. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

likes you , but broke up with u because they just wanted to be friends and now he is calling u sexy an says that he still likes u and stuff like that and the thing is that he has a grl friend what do i do ? Help !!!!!

2006-06-19 15:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this women says that she is truely in love with me and wants to marry me and she has also said that i am the only guy for her for the rest of her life and she also says she has never felt with way before in her life, she gets butterflies in her stomach and she wants to her from me all the time and misses me when she doesn't hear from me and i miss her too when i don't hear from her and i want to hear her voice all the time and i also get butterflies in my stomach when i hear her voice, but we have only spoken to eachother for 2 months and and have obviously never met in person, but will very soon, she lives overseas but wants to live here, two questions here am i falling in love with her and is she definetly in love with me, i have asked her many times how does she know this is love and she has told me it is a feeling in her heart as i have previously told you, i definetly believe her when she says she loves me more than words can say. but could she be wrong

2006-06-19 15:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by mr a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 15:23:04 · 3 answers · asked by boho 1 in Singles & Dating

then lets all join togeather so we will be heard

2006-06-19 15:22:29 · 3 answers · asked by whooker1954 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wrote a question yesterday about my husband wanting to do the right thing and pay child support to his ex for their son. they were never married and agreed on just paying money without going to court. well now he wants to change that and have everything down with child support and visitation. well she told him she didnt want to do that so he called the child support and they told him NO if she does not want it they can not force her. here is a father a real man that wants to take care of his son and do the right thing and he is basically being told NO!!!! why would they tell him no i dont understand that. what else can he do?? im just at a lost cause i really thought that the court system would tell a man like this YES .....what to do next???!!!

2006-06-19 15:21:39 · 12 answers · asked by Arianna C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 15:20:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a beautiful 7 year old daughter and a husband of 5 years together 10 . I always thought marriage was more then this ? I dunno how im suppost to feel ..maybe its not the real thing maybe im just used to him ive been with him for so long .. I cant see myself with anyone else .. I mean I know i love him but i question his love for me ...he keeps me isolated from the world it seems.. but yet he's always telling me to make friends or get out and do things but when I try he makes up an excuse for me not too?? I didnt know being married feels so lonely ..does it ? I want to make our family work but it seems like nothing I do is ever good enough for him .. and I have gained 30 pounds thru the years ..maybe he's not attracted to me anymore ? what can i do to rekindle what we used to have ..I feel he is only here becuz he feels he needs to be cuz of our child ? I mean is this how love is suppost to feel ?

2006-06-19 15:20:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 10 year old boy wants to buy a Sony W800 cell phone, which is very expensive (in my opinion) for someone his age. He's buying it with his savings, but it still bothers me. Won't he be asking for a Hummer when he grows up? He's a straight A student and all, but that's not how i was raised....

2006-06-19 15:19:37 · 38 answers · asked by ashley j 2 in Family

2006-06-19 15:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by young and in love 1 in Friends

meaning: what race is your favorite? and why............

2006-06-19 15:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by Valerie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Most of the time he is a sweet and loving guy. But sometimes he gets on my nerves. I have 2 kids who are 23 and 18 both are girls. The 18 year old still lives with me at home. My boyfriend wants her to move out, I don't want my dauhter to leave home. I would make him move out before I told my duaghter she had to leave . Would I be wrong if I did that.?

2006-06-19 15:18:17 · 10 answers · asked by hastybabe38 1 in Family

the guy is like m best friend

2006-06-19 15:17:44 · 29 answers · asked by babygurl200532618420002000 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 15:17:32 · 15 answers · asked by ^_§|èëp¡ñg_^ 2 in Friends

My husband & I had been married for 6 years, and during this time he has been reciving emails from diferents exlovers,we have had problems because of this, but he say than I,m too jealous, that he is not doing anything wrong. Now he just received an email from "the love of his life", and he pretend to iniciate a comuncation with her, no matter how much I'm hurting.

2006-06-19 15:16:44 · 8 answers · asked by None 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-19 15:15:12 · 23 answers · asked by nobodybutmegonnaloveya 1 in Singles & Dating

well im a virgin and i want to do it with my boyfriend but im really insecure about my body im not sloppy or nothin i just got a pouch and a few stretch marks.

2006-06-19 15:14:48 · 21 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

always wanted to ask that

2006-06-19 15:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by Mikey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A close friend of mine has a problem and I can't help her. Her bf got out of jail, went to stay at a friends house and never came back, or never called. She is upset and doesn't know how to handle the situation. What do you think, should she just let it go or should she hunt his butt down like a wild boar?

2006-06-19 15:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On a chick, what is your favorite piercing or location for a tattoo. Thanks guys!!

2006-06-19 15:13:15 · 10 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Singles & Dating

It's not like I don't know what to do...I just need something new. we've been together for eleven years...i need some new material.

2006-06-19 15:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by chocolate smoke 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I abousltly LOATHE this girl but I miss being able to talk to him. The few seconds we talk is nothing but a brief"Hi" whenever she's not around. Please no dumb response just wanted to talk.

2006-06-19 15:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by math wiz 1 in Friends

2006-06-19 15:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by friendsrox247 1 in Friends

Is it strange for a guy to take two months to tell a girl he likes that we'll he would like to be more than just friends or is that a sign of not being interested? I'm confused!!! = S I've flirted with him, but he doesnt flirt back...should i just get over him? I just really like him!!! = (

2006-06-19 15:12:12 · 9 answers · asked by Janet S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am his only guy friend, and I am gay, but I don't know if he is. He is extremely sweet, polite, and shy. Some girl from school was calling him a fag, and he left the library. Other guys, if you call them a fag, they will go off on you, but he looked like he might cry. I have asked him before if he was gay, on Yahoo, and he didn't answer me. But now, he talks to me more than ever, and he told me a lot about how he was upset because his best friend, a girl, didn't want to be his friend anymore. He usually wears a black shirt and camo boots, and he is not masculine, he kind of has a feminine posture and he talks with a bad lisp. I am not saying any of this to be negative towards him, but i am just pointing out some things that may give me an answer to his sexual orientation. Anyway, plz tell me someone, because i think i like him as a good friend, and maybe even a little more.

2006-06-19 15:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Cody 1 in Friends

I have not spoke with my father's side since I was 3 and he died. His name was Russell Hamilton and he's from Essex, Maryland, United States. Does anyone know his brother or any of my family?

2006-06-19 15:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by Alicia22 2 in Friends