I abousltly LOATHE this girl but I miss being able to talk to him. The few seconds we talk is nothing but a brief"Hi" whenever she's not around. Please no dumb response just wanted to talk.
2006-06-19 15:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by math wiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I never give dumb responses but I have to admit that it was tempting this time. I will give you the benefit of the doubt though and assume that you just want to blow off steam. If I was friends with a guy who couldn't talk to me because he was afraid his girlfriend might think he was up to no good I would do myself a favor and stay away until he breaks up with her. It is hard to stay away from someone that you really like as a friend or otherwise but it is best to respect his and her boundaries and visit other friends for now. No amount of loathing will change anything except for your stress. You don't need it. Accept the situation and move on.
2006-06-19 15:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, respect the fact that this girl is the one he has chosen to be his girlfriend. Secondly, when you get a chance, let him know that you miss being able to talk to him like you used to, but you respect his decision to have this girl in his life.
Even though you LOATHE this girl, at least say a friendly "Hello" to her when you see her. Don't fight with her, EVER. It's not lady like.
He will respect you immensely for this. In the end, you will be the winner. You'll respect yourself more too!!
2006-06-19 15:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give him some space to deal with his girlfriend. You maybe totally innocent,but put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel if your man was always talking to another girl or hanging out with her,especially a girl that YOU didn't like!
2006-06-19 15:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, This happen to me hear is what u can do.
1. Call him and say we need to talk and meet him somewhere.
2. Write him an e-mail asking him why he doesnot talk to you when his girlfriend is around
3.Put a letter in his e-mail saying what he is doing and hoew you feel.
2006-06-19 15:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by jamie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say im your friend remember who was your friend before she stepped in your life. say your hurt and you want just friendship and you mean no harm on the relationship. if he doesnt listen ignore him your friend ship will be valued with some one else. i found a bit of the cold shoulder aways work if you ignore him he mite get the picture
2006-06-19 15:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make yourself stand her. Unless she did something completely wrond to you make her your friend and she will come around. Then you can all hang out together.
2006-06-19 15:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get a long unless its Harleigh powers than scew that punch her realy hard in the gut
2006-06-19 15:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it time to let them go, I know it's hard too but just remember they always come back. Or you could just pretend to like her.
2006-06-19 15:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get along with her for his sake.
2006-06-19 15:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by rikku90210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either get along with her, or find a new friend, cause he isnt gonna pick her over you.
2006-06-19 15:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋