I am his only guy friend, and I am gay, but I don't know if he is. He is extremely sweet, polite, and shy. Some girl from school was calling him a fag, and he left the library. Other guys, if you call them a fag, they will go off on you, but he looked like he might cry. I have asked him before if he was gay, on Yahoo, and he didn't answer me. But now, he talks to me more than ever, and he told me a lot about how he was upset because his best friend, a girl, didn't want to be his friend anymore. He usually wears a black shirt and camo boots, and he is not masculine, he kind of has a feminine posture and he talks with a bad lisp. I am not saying any of this to be negative towards him, but i am just pointing out some things that may give me an answer to his sexual orientation. Anyway, plz tell me someone, because i think i like him as a good friend, and maybe even a little more.
2006-06-19 15:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Cody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! I thought my drama was over flowing but your's is too! I too am having possible feelings for a good friend. The only difference- he's trting to make me jealous by going out with his ex who I seriously LOATHE!!! Anywayz, now that I told u this delema volunteeraly, now to your prob. Trying talking to him face to face. That way you can see if he's lying or not. (So much easier to tell whether a person's telling the truth or not, they tend to avoid eye contact a lot,figit with things and don't speak clearly.) If he's not than you have to except have to get over him but if he's is than maintain your distance. Keep in mind he may not feel the same way. Out of curiosity, how old is he any way? I hope I helped at least a bit. Maybe you can return the favor. TTFN
2006-06-19 15:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by math wiz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may just normally act that way from being around alot of female family members and no males, it happens but he is he will tell you whether he is or not in time...he may be alittle uncomfortable with discussing certain things as the topic because of feeling ashamed or not wanting to openly tell whether he really is or not...
2006-06-19 15:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels about gay people. Does he know that your gay? If so, flirt alittle with him. If he flirts back, talk to him about being gay and just gay in general and flirt alittle more intensely. But not over the top.
2006-06-19 15:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by rikku90210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are gay? I thought you guys had a secret handshake or something. and you can't tell about your pal?
they are gonna take your gay decoder ring away. hell, just ask him who played in brokeback mountain, bang, bob's your uncle, you got your answer.
2006-06-19 15:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force someone to reveal personal information if he does not wish to do so. continue to be his friend, in time you will learn more about him..where he feels he can trust you....
2006-06-19 15:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch his body language. point out another cute guy ,tell him that thguy is cute and see if he agrees wit u
2006-06-19 15:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ghetto SuperStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard that if it walks like a duck, and it talks like a duck.....
2006-06-19 15:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you both get help for your problem
2006-06-20 12:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by weaver2sl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew...he sounds gay to me.
2006-06-19 15:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Susie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kiss and see what happens
2006-06-19 15:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋