well im a virgin and i want to do it with my boyfriend but im really insecure about my body im not sloppy or nothin i just got a pouch and a few stretch marks.
2006-06-19 15:14:48 · 21 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make him wait until you 2 get married.
2006-06-19 15:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey don't we all. Not every girl has stretch marks or a pouch but we all have insecurities. If it will make you feel better start applying Palmer's cocoa butter to your stretch marks and go tanning or use self tanner to hide them or minimize them. The tan will also make you appear slimmer and minimize your pouch, Wear lingerie that's black---it's very flattering.
2006-06-19 22:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Playmate3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the great thing about sex (at least in my case): you stop thinking about yourself. If he loves you, a few lumps here and there don't matter. and really, some guys find fluff attractive!
If you haven't yet, I suggest you try heavy petting/ touching before you go all the way. It gives you a chance to explore his body and for him to explore you before you do that. it also makes you more comfortable with intimacy before you try and bond on such an emotional level. for some people, it really is emotional and takes a lot. If you do this, I suggest you use all your senses and body parts. use your hands, mouth, legs, torso, face, all of it. that way you REALLY get a sense of what they're all about and what you like. some people like to be bitten lightly, some like to be licked. and some just get scared by this kind of thing. it's best to know these things before he's in you and gets freaked out and an accident occurs. beleive me, booboos in bed are not fun...
It's different for everybody, you may not find it as exhilarating as an experience as it's cracked up to be. then again, it might overwhelm you. give it some time, don't rush, and above all, play! it is fun if you let it be.
2006-06-19 22:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by mystique_365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are insecure, it will show and the night will not be enjoyable. You should wait until you feel comfortable with your body. Timing is everything!!!
2006-06-19 22:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he will love your pouch and your stretch marks too.
2006-06-19 22:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is there for you, it really doesnt matter what you look like!!!
if you are the one that doesnt feel good the try different ways like
doing it with the light off
wering sexy clothering you can all ways get around it
2006-06-19 22:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until married I did and my man is so proud of me he loves me for what i am not for my looks and it will pay off later I been married 12 years and thinks have not change sex is still great just wait
2006-06-20 01:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel and why.Then you will know if it matters to him but I doubt it will.I just hope you both know what your doing.I hope he isn't just wanting sex from a virgin.
2006-06-19 22:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure hope your old enough to be making this decision.... I wasn't and have regretted it..........as for as your body be proud of who you are and don't try to be someone else...........take some time and let yourself be ready don't just jump into things........:)
2006-06-19 22:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mercy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that shouldn't matter. Trust me he will not be looking at a couple of extra pounds.
2006-06-19 22:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋