My husband and I have been married 9 months. This is my second marriage, his third. Both of our previous marriages lasted 20+ years. During those years, I spent the majority of my time raising my three children which gave me no time for much else. However, my husband and his ex spent their time traveling, going all over the country, visiting exotic restaurants, attending the theater, balls, etc., seeing performances of stars one only hears about. I hear about the experiences and all the good times daily. At first I didn't mind, but when he pulls out videos of the two of them white-water rafting in Colorado, or I hear about limo rides in Manhattan, I wonder, "what do I care?" Am I being unduly resentful or is he being inconsiderate of focusing on a past that I have no part of? I wonder how we can have a future if he's still in the past.
2006-06-19
14:13:41
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Marriage & Divorce