How do let a man know you want him, without anyone else in the room noticing?

Question

I like secrets.

Answer 1

Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello.

Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not.

Don't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time.

Smile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!"

Flirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there.

Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him.

Show off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly.

Try to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them).

Go up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him.

Tell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together.

Be a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.

Don't change yourself too much.

A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch!

Sit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested.

Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude!

Act confident but try not to seem stuck up.
'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it.

Ask him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out.

Consider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems.

No guy likes a person who is snobby.
If he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was.

Don't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man.

Make sure to brush your teeth!

Be sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly.

Don't tell him lies.
If the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.

You can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!

Answer 2

Eye contact and subtle body language always worked for me. Now I have been out of the "dating loop" for quite some time but from watching and listening to my single girlfriends, seems somethings never change. Confidence and self respect are always great. No matter what anyone tells you, there is such a thing too much confidence. Just try some of these keys and be who you are and things should work out pretty well.

Answer 3

Sex? ****, that's easy.. How far off are we talkin' here? If it's across the room, make eye contact then NARROW your eyes... sexy look time. Then .. lick your lips, honey or.. lick the top of your cup.. then walk (deliberately) either right BY him, outta the room (he'll follow.. you'll see) or ****, that's good enuff. You gotta be tricky/sneaky tho and at thesame time you do this (stare a long time at him first.. he'll get curious, stare back to see what you are looking at..)notice NOBODY else is watching you, alright? alright! that's valuable information I just imparted to ya there, honey.. (53/F .. I'm the ole pro!) later

Answer 4

Sexy eye contact does it all the time. And a little wiggle & jiggle while you get up to go across the room never hurts. First determine if he's at least interested and once you have his attention, the eyes can do it EVERYTIME.

Answer 5

With your eyes, your body movements, a glance at him, a smile that says to him, "I want you". If you sit across from him, wear a dress, and show him a little leg when the time is right You can make him want you,and never say a word to him, if you use your assets properly.

Answer 6

Just wink and give him little looks across the room. You can flirt without saying a word.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

flirting may go a long way.... However some men like being approached by woman.. it is sort of a turn on for them.. its all in your eyes and you body movement. men can read those kinds of signs very well

Answer 9

Well... Thats kind of hard, but maybe a little sexual eye contact, but either way people gonna know eventually.

Answer 10

whne you get eye contact with him give him a cheeky sweet smile then look away and look back at him