we were friends for 4 years, and eversince, i loved him. its mutual feeling for both of us, but, we never got together, for the reason of our friendship. and now, im going out with someone, and i want to get over him, so i can focus my attention with my boyfriend. but everytime i try to forget him, i just can't. please tell me im doing it right. i love my boyfriend, but first love never dies. and i want it to die...??? im suffering, because everytime my boyfriend and i are together, i can see his pain. it really hurts for me... freak!
2006-06-19 14:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by mai t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's very unfair for your boyfriend to think of another man more especially when you are together but you're just being true to yourself. If you can be sure that the pain you see in your friend's eyes really betrays his love for you, you should act now while it isn't too late for you. Your friend may focus his attention to another woman while it is you whom he loves truly.
Be true to yourself. If you love him more than you love your boyfriend, have a heart to heart talk with your friend where you will have the chance to ask him his real feelings for you. If in the process, he admits that he loves you romantically, that is the signal for you to be honest with your boyfriend who needs to know your real feelings. Break off with him and start anew with the man you really love. Good luck.
2006-06-19 14:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive being asking myself the same, i suppose its just a time issue and try doing more things with your guy it might pre occupy your mind, i think that we always hold that special place fot that first one that made us feels so great.
its hard try, i think if your boyfriends knows that he was a special person to you in the past and its hard just letting go of thoose loving feelings, he should have understanding, its not like you dont care about your present guy cause you obviously care enough to say it and ask for peoples oppinions.
maybe try a new town and new start with your guy thats always good, the only reason i didnt as the ex did it he move oversease al though his there as the first guy i really cared for in my heart, his physicalli in th uk.
any ways hope i have brang you some comfort i know where you coming from even though im single i am wondering when to move on and that, and will the next guy ever match up..
2006-06-19 21:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes love doesnt go and sometimes it does and right now you care more about your friend then you do with your bf and you cant help who you like and dont like and i hope you do the right thing fallow your hart and see who you love more and if its your friend tell him but stay out with your bf untill you hear what your friend says about it.
2006-06-20 12:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call your friend and tell him you cant get over him and he might feel touched and change his mind
2006-06-19 21:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by BEGtoDIFFER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋