shes friends with my friend, met her once...
2006-06-19 14:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be romantic and sweet to her.
Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far...
Try to make her laugh. Girls like boys who are funny.
Talk to her about stuff she is interested in like music. Or more importantly, try to get her to talk about herself. Then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway- think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine more fully if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather.
Don't be too clingy. Give her her space.
Make sure that you're not always the one calling her and instant-messaging her. Wait for her to IM you when you get online or for her to call you. If she doesn't, she may not like you in the same way. (Of course, she might just be shy and doesn't know how to make the first move.)
Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better.
Tips
Be sweet. Don't talk all about you. Ask her about her day or what she did.
Be a gentleman! Open the door for her, don't interrupt. Girls like a nice guy (well, most of 'em).
Warnings
If you go in for a kiss at the end of your date and she says that she is uncomfortable or that you are going to fast then slow down. If you really like her you will respect her opinion.
Try not to be too possessive, because most people still like their own personal space.
Don't rush into anything. Get to know each other before starting a relationship. If another man is trying to steal her away, be protective of her -- some girls like to be defended by the guy they like.
2006-06-19 14:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cash usually works, throw some around, charisma also helps. you don't get a gurl to do anything, she makes that choice on her own. you don't even know her and you want to manipulate her. would you be attracted to a manipulator, first thing you have to do is quit looking at her like she is something to be had. think of her as a real person with a brain and experiences that gets hit on a couple dozen times a day and can recognize a scammer from across the street. honest intentions will get you farther than anything. no sweet talking, it's fake , use your normal voice that you would talk to a guy with. guys tend to sweeten their voice when talking to a target I mean gurl. it doesn't work very well. it's condecending. it is saying I am trying to manipulate you hope you don't notice, I want you to think I am a very nice guy because I am talking in a non threatening way. just act natural if you are a passive person don't try and change it, you will be out of your element.
2006-06-19 14:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 03:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some good cologne I've had really good success with versace blue jeans and then ask her for her opinion of it. Ask her for her email address and then just email her all the time keeping it casual. She will get obsessed with getting emails from you. They will make her feel important and they will be a security blanket for her. Trust me I've been doing this for a decade.
2006-06-19 14:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by hypothetical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as u act sweet and like u care about her no matter what she will at least feel something 4 u
2006-06-19 14:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your friend to set you up on a "one-way" blind date... you know that you are going to go out with her but she doesn't and when u do meet like at a restraunt flirt with her and flatter her the whole time.
2006-06-19 14:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just dont like it when guys give advice about girls they are always saying things like,act sweet, if you are not sweet dont act sweet, be your self if you care for her show her you care if you want to take her out ask her out, dude the best you can be is you.starting a relationship on acting is not gonna last.
2006-06-19 14:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make stupid mistakes. just b come her friend n i hate to say this but be urself. all of ma funniest actz come out wen im my self. funny impresses n gets grls to like u man. trust me. but first get ur friend to introduce u n then become her friend. it scares them if u just come up like nothin. and be urself as i said.
2006-06-19 14:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by krazy4grls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF! That's all we want is someone who is comfortable being themselves and if we like you we like you.
Then we can be ourselves too and that's such a good feeling.
Then you know you truly like one another, no surprises, no games.... good luck sweetie!
2006-06-19 14:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo dude.. if you have to ask... then maybe you don't get it..
You don't force someone to like you..
She either likes you or doesn't..
It's a crap shoot!
2006-06-19 14:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋