I know this guy who is 4yrs older than I am and he's told me he has feelings for me but then treats me like one of his friends...he flirts but then says I'm too young indirectly or sometimes straight foward...im 17 and he's 21
So is he just playing games or does he really like me??
2006-06-19 14:11:41 · 20 answers · asked by ♥JCluvsu2!♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 21 he most likely doesn't really know what he wants in life right now anyway.
He probably does find you attractive and likes to be with you. He may be afraid of the whole "minor" thing or that you may be too clingy as a younger woman. Talk to him. If anything it'll prove your maturity level to him.
Just set him straight on what you want out of this relation ship and ask him what he wants. If he truly wants something more than friendship then he'll wait for you. Or you might have to settle for being good friends. I don't think he's playing games though.
2006-06-19 14:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Alpha Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really have to ask then I am pretty sure on this one you already know the answer. Besides he's too old for you. If he was a man he would be able to be direct. He's playin you so you'll play with him. He is aware your a young naive girl and he wants you to "prove your old enough" for him by doing something sexually. Don't do it. I am sure there are guys closer to your age that like you for who you are and are willing to show it without the games. Pay attention to them not a 21 yr old who can't get a girl his own age.
2006-06-19 14:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could like you, but you are jail bait for him. If things look intimate, people can take it the wrong way and he could get in trouble. Just relax and enjoy a good friendship for now, it gives you time to get to know him on a level you might not get in many relationships, 18 comes around soon enough => .
2006-06-19 14:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is probably waiting 4 u to turn 18 but dont fool around and wait on him if he really likes u he will over look the age difference
2006-06-19 14:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not, but like ur young he doesn't want to get in trouble, but at da sametime maybe he really like u a buddy but y don't u add a situation u know so we can imagen more about whats going on and help u
2006-06-19 14:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, he's too old for you. Forget about him and look at guys your own age or maybe a year or two away. I dated a couple older guys when I was around your age and they only wanted one thing. If I have to tell you what that is....enough said.
2006-06-19 14:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he likes you...but he probably likes other things about you too (if u kno wat i mean) So he's probably thinkin if he's gonna get with u ...he wants to GET with you....but then again maybe he is waiting till you turn 18 which means he really likes you. Thats why its a confusing situation so basically the only thing left to do is to seriously talk to him about it, especially if you like him back.
2006-06-19 14:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you around until you turn 18 cause he doesnt want to seem like a chomo (child molester)
2006-06-19 14:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by xosobfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probaly just doesn't want to go to prison at this stage in his life over a potential case maker. wait till your 18 and he'll get with you . you'll see!
2006-06-19 14:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Soul Pole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you lots but your not legal age and that presents a problem.
2006-06-19 14:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋