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Question

Okay so my stalker is scaring me.

Hes making big hints about how he wants to go out with me and he said he LOVED me....in the scary way.

I want to tell his friend at school but I am SO afraid he wont believe me. I would sound like a tattletale on his friend.

The people who have "protected" me are gone. I feel so alone and I dont know what to do.

Im a mess and Im afraid to go anywhere alone.

I want to meet someone at camp or something.

I am NOT interested in this guy whatsoever.
But I heard a story that he went to a girls house, took his shirt out and pulled out a CONDOM because he was mad at her.

PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I AM SO SCARED!!!!

I cant tell my parents or an upper authority because it would mess up his life.

YESSSSS I JUST KICKED HIS ***!!!!!

Thank you ALL!

I will be selecting a best answer when the 24 hours are up.

I did it without the police

I said my parents were pissed at the phone bill

and he was good about it.

AND IM FREE!!!!

I LOVE YOU ALL!!!

Answer 1

he is messin up urs. just stay away. dont report it. (wat am i sayin) wait. but never go alone to a plce he might be ./Just warn him or sumthin....., n then if he continues CALL THE COPZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Answer 2

What the heck do you think he's doing to you? I mean is he making your life easier or worse?
If you're afraid of this guy or you are uncomfortable about the situation, you better tell your parents and have them help you out, that's what parents are for to help and comfort there children to protect them, and to help them feel safe and secure.
Buy the way if he's doing this to you and rumor has it he's done this to someone else, if you don't do something about it to help you your just letting him get away with it. Really in other terms if you new someone who raped someone would you tell or not just because it would mess up there life! Big deal if it does maybe if something is done now then he won't be a bigger danger later.
Really think about it if you don't do something about it then who's going to?

Answer 3

Girl, if he is stalking you, then you should let your parents know. So what if it's gonna spoil his life. He's none of your concern unless you do have feelings for him. All I'm saying is think for your own safety. Don't depend on ppl to give you protection because they can't protect you 24/7. Don't go anywhere alone especially at night. Bring along a friend or a family member. Keep pepper sprays with you at all times. Hope this will help you. Take care

Answer 4

Hm-m-m-m-m, mess up his life or possibly lose mine,

mess up his life or possibly lose mine......this is not a hard question. He sounds like a bully.

TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW AND DO NOT - - I REPEAT - DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HOW HE FEELS OR WHAT HE DOES. YOUR PARENTS WILL PROTECT YOU. IF YOUR AT A SCHOOL, TELL THE PRINCIPAL OR WHOEVER. GO TO THE POLICE IF HE IS INTIMIDATING ENOUGH.

The problem is everybody is afraid of everybody. Tell on his *** and then stay clear of him and stay with someone for a while until he finds someone else to push around. Dont let him control your life. Stand up for your self. Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 5

Sweety it sounds like his life is pretty messed up anyway! Get help now!
If you've told him in clear terms that you don't want to have anything to do with him and he still wont leave you alone then you need to get authority involved. Tell his parents or tell his friends that he's kinda scary with this whole stalking thing. Don't go anywhere alone and try to have plenty of friends around you at all times. I don't want to scare you anymore that you already are, but fear is a valuable asset, it's our minds way of letting us know there is danger and if he frightens you then you need to listen to your emotions and find a way out of this situation.

Answer 6

why are you concerned about this creep's life? HE IS A STALKER, GET A GRIP! call the authorities now. get a restraining order. there are too many sad stories about women/girls who get raped and killed by their stalker. be sure you tell someone who is an authority figure. if the s**t hits the fan, you want someone to protect you. tell everybody you know about this guy. they can help keep an eye on you and on him. once you sound the alarm, you are much more safe. It's this guy's choice to be a stalker, and if he wants to ruin his life over it, so be it. at this point, your life is WAY more important. you aren't following him, he's not in danger. get yourself out of danger now and start opening your mouth. it may be scary, you may not want to do it, you may not think it's "cool" but you know what's really not cool? falling victim to a stalker.

Please, look at what the majority of us say. we believe you are in a desparate and scary situation, and most of us know and fear where this leads. we're not playing around, and we're not overreacting. this is very real, and very important.

Answer 7

Well, if he is that harsh then it would be best to mess up his life. He is not a very good person and just tell him that you do not like him, just make sure it in school in front of a lot of people so that there would be like no way for him to hurt you. If he asks to go to your house or something just say you are busy and make sure you tell him before it too late and you get into really SERIOUS trouble with him.

Answer 8

He has already messed up YOUR life right now, don't worry about his life. What he is doing, causing you this stress is awful and the harassment and stalking is illigal. You HAVE to tell the principal if he is a student at your school, tell your parents, tell the police, ect. Some people like this get worse and worse until they do something really bad. It has to be dealt with NOW before it possibly gets to that.

Answer 9

u need to pray to god, seriously that god will have his protective hedge upon your life, that no harm will come to u.
you need to let someone know about this guy.
if you don't, i'm sorry to say that then it'll be your fault if something happens & no one knows about it. do or say something b/4 it's too late. you have a choice, & i'd advise u to make the right one. this guy needs some serious help.
i know u r concerned w/his life but more importantly>>>> how about yours? is it fair to live in fear? no it's not.
if you let someone know about him, maybe he can finally get the help he truly needs. what if he really hurts/kills someone? & you knew what was going on? do u know that the bible says that their blood will be on your hands. meaning that you'll be judged & held accountable for that person b/cuz u knew but didn't say anything....
this could be the best thing that u can do to help this guy out. he needs help, do it b/4 it's too late. how would this guy know that you've told someone? i know the authorities have ways in protecting u, while they try & catch this person on their own. no one will ever know. i would cut off any friendly relationship w/him, cut all strings/ties to this guy. don't speak w/him & definitely don't lead this guy on)if u r that is. this isn't a game to play, it can get ugly & dangerous.
good luck.

Answer 10

i really dont know how to help you but the only thing you can do is tell an adult even if you sound like a tattle tale it is for your saftey and if he did have sex with that girl then you should REALLY tell an adult but it also could be a rumor about him i really dont know how to help you on this and im sorry for that the only advice i can give is to satay away from him and try to be with somebody else even if you dont like him as a boyfriend be his friend or something that way he has ur back and youll have his and if he is a good guy who knows maybe you could be more and then hell protect you with his life.

Answer 11

well let's see...hmm...should you sit and let him mess up your life because he's crazy?? or should you tell someone and mess up his life even though i'm sure it's already messed up. why would pulling out a condom scare someone?! it won't bit you. where are your 'protectors'? how old are you anyway? a stalker follows you. if he is just obsessed with you then that is a different story kiddo. i have dealt with that and i can tell you that a real stalker require police intervention.
a tattletale?! geesh....are you even old enough to be out alone?!