Why is it that u break up with some one and u cant get over that fact that u broke up with him?

Answer 1

u are connected to him, youknow that you like him and cant get of him... and he is the one guy that ould listen to you while you were in a relationship and since you broke up you have no one that will hold you, talk to you, to go to, and listen to you like he did.

Answer 2

HOW U EVER THINK ABOUT the word break -up?is a compound one....

it means that something was a whole/ all in one piece/once is break is not longer in one piece but on the contrary its separates.

That separation after being one....is what afect us all on a break up in a relation No more "we" not in the present time or future.
its about looking and talking about how u used to be in the past tense. Is about facing reality ur not 2gether anymore wich is not easy if u still have feelings for that other person.

Is a time of adjustment, of people asking u about ur love one, and start telling the world ur not longer 2gether, get a hold of ur life without that person that it was part of u.
That was there with you, and for you. Is a moment in time when u freeze ur feelings cause they hurt...and put urself on a hold "mode".

CHANGING the same routine cause ull miss him more.....

The best cure is to have a terrible break up, where things started to break up/little by little/and u face the fact that ur better off without him...

Answer 3

Because it's a normal reaction to the attachment you two once had. Give it some time, it'll wear off like the "new car smell". Just remember why you broke up and that'll remove any silly ideas of getting back together. An ex is an ex for a reason.

Answer 4

eh, we're girls.. that's why. I know.. sounds callous and I know there are a lotta swell goddamned guys out there, but hell, I've been around and the ugliest, meanest damned guys seem to still find some women to chase around after them! I don't ever understand that.. but it's a fact. You broke up and still feel bad/can't go on, huh? We've all been there, honey.. The older we get.. (goin' through enough of these crappy breakups.. it sux, I know..) we mature and figure out what we want.. find someone totally decent (we hope..) Chicks seem to moan most over the biggest dick heads, I swear! You need to remember (NOT the good times.. the hell with that) Think the poor bastard had like the worst breath, smelliest 'feet' (****, something.. I dunno).. make it up if ya have to! You'll feel better soon.. trust me! I know.. later-

Answer 5

I know the feeling...its not easy to get over it...It took me almost 2 months to recover...Now I laughed about all the stupid things that I did...i even wrote my ex a "song of reconciliation" and it hurts more knowing that i cant have him back....After 2 months of agony, I found a new love of my life...And I am so thankful that he opened my heart to love again...He is everything a girl could dream of...Believe it or not, Im just laughing away all the tears that I shed for my ex because my boyfriend now love me more than he did and we are sooooo very much inlove.....So, my advise is, take your time, wallow all you want now because tommorow, someone better is coming...

Answer 6

I think break ups are the hardest thing for a person to go through. And it's even harder to see that your ex has moved on before you have.

Answer 7

even though you broke up with them, you still have feelings for that certain person. You 2 may not be together closely but u still like them

Answer 8

because you still have strong feelings for that person but its probably just better to get over him....

Answer 9

i had the same feeling. and the thing is, i still think about him even though we're not together anymore. sad, ain't it? haha.

Answer 10

If you cant get over it, then maybe you shouldnt have done it at all.