2006-06-19 14:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by jransmac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he is not worried about it you must leave it alone. If he has a problem with it encourage he to initate a better relationship.
2006-06-19 14:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by symbolforpeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, talk to your husband and let him know. Try not to be angry about it just voice your concern. If it's not a problem for him then just let it go, some families just aren't close. If it is a problem for him then help him come up with ways to start a deeper relationship with them, I have to wish you all the luck. I have encountered a similar problem with my own in-laws and their lack of interest in my husband, and we're still working on it.
2006-06-19 14:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alpha Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to stay out of it, unless my husband felt hurt. When you dealing with HIS side of the family.. You could get yourself into trouble. If your husband wants you to say something than be very careful how you word it.
Remember you will be dealing with these relatives forever... unless of course you cut ties...
You pick Friends.. not Family... be cautious...
2006-06-19 14:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some families just aren't close. you didn't say whether or not you've talked with your husband, or your in-laws. you may not get anywhere with either, so be supportive of your husband and cordial to the in-laws.
2006-06-19 14:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says nothing I wouldn't either although they are now part of your family it can still get ugly. You are married to him not his family.
2006-06-19 14:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by ebonybutterfly4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband to ask them why they act that way or you could or he could tell them so long -- he can either ask them if theywanna make peace or disown them all together it's his choice either way... good luck..
2006-06-19 14:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by lAUREL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've lived your life so far without them, so just be courteous as you would to any other human being, and go on about your business.
2006-06-19 14:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! not all families function like ours do . you get what i mean
2006-06-19 14:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say nothing and ignore them.
2006-06-19 14:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋