I have been married almost 30 yrs. My husband stopped working about l0 yrs. ago(supposedly can't work) I went back to work, for financial reasons & sanity reasons. He won't let me have time to myself when I am home. When he does go somewhere it is to drink, approx 3 or 4 times a week. He doesn't touch me anymore..no hugs no kisses. Only if he wants sex, which he makes sure is only for his good. I tried talking to him about he makes me feel. I ended up going to the dr. cause of my nerves & feeling so hurt & rejected. He was upset that I had talked to the dr. about him. I asked him to see a marrriage couns..He told me I should find someone to go talk to, to deal with my anxiety & nerves. About 5 mins. after I try talking to him about these things, he acts like nothing is wrong in our relationship. He was upset that I wasn't happy, he thought we were best friends. I do feel alot of resentment towards him for not working & for witholding affection from me. What should I do?
2006-06-10
17:07:46
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dustyrose_4u
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Marriage & Divorce