im 32 right now and as of last count i've have had almost 15 partners. very few of them have been relationships and some have been aquaintances and some have been one nighters. personally i feel bad about what i've done and don't know if i should tell the guy i'm seeing right now how many i've had or just keep it to myself.
2006-06-10 17:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by Trouble 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel bad about it then you should probably not get into that kind of conversation with him right away. He might pick up on your shame and get freaked out. As you know, It always comes up some time or another though. Just wait till you get to know him and he gets to know you a little more. This way you will both be more comfortable with one another and it won't feel so weird to talk about it.
2006-06-10 17:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Blue EyEs 2 · 15⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you should ask yourself why it was so important to get humped and dumped in the pass? Sounds like it was all about the booty call. And if it could be sustained for a time you did. But none where ever the home you were going to purchase, just leasers. Maybe he would feel he was just another guy in the amusement ride, or he might not care. If there is a chance of him discovering it, then you best come clean. At least you can spin in in a way that doesn't make you seem like the town bicycle; everyone gets a ride. Maybe you should try real hard to anchor this relationship on something other than sex. Then when it does come up, he will see it looks like something other than just a booty call.
2006-06-11 05:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that number is that bad, but some guys are weird and think more than a couple is too many no matter how old you are. I made the mistake of telling one of my ex's when I was still with him how many people I had been with and it was a fight from then on out.
2006-06-10 17:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a terrible number for someone who is 32
2006-06-10 17:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow , really you should keep your personal life to yourself , or you will get nothing but attitude from everyone. it is your life and only yours so you should do what you want to do.
just be careful though don't forget 1 partner has also got a background and he or she might have already had 100 partners.
2006-06-10 20:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the doctor tells you that the rash and burning is not normal and you can't remember the answer to this question, "Who were the last 5 sexual partners".....
2006-06-10 17:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your number is that drastic. I know people 10 years younger than you with more. I think it's only a problem when you start losing count.
2006-06-10 17:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better not tell the real number because most guys resent hearing about your sexual history. I recommend cutting it in 1/2.
2006-06-10 17:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by applpro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a slu.t wen u had more partners then ur age
2006-06-10 17:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by diferdoper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself.
2006-06-10 17:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋