wat is a girl suppose to do while having sex????....just relax or what???...i m confused...help me...plzzzzzzzzzzzzz
2006-06-10 17:05:19 · 17 answers · asked by Rukhsar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have never done it before....n i m really scared..that it will hurt
2006-06-10 17:10:40 · update #1
wait until you find mr. right and plan to get married, then all will feel right and you won't have to worry about being scared. men are not always as experienced as you might think they are. if a man loves you he will wait. if you find one who is a virgin too. then the union will be even more special. I made the mistake of having sex before marriage and i have a daughter who was taken from me and will never see. I am with someone now who i think loves me very much and i want to marry him and have his child. but he sometimes complains about his inexperiences, and is afraid i will leave him for something better. but i think we do pretty good together. if you can wait, wait til it is right.
2006-06-10 17:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by bobsgirl20067 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex without the commitment of marriage. It will hurt a lot and you will be sad and disappointed. It will hurt you even more emotionally and psychologically. Then even when you are married you will always associate with that first bad experience. You will always be trying to deny that it meant anything. But you will not be as free and open to loving your husband.
Wait for Mr Right and also for the right time. Some things you just don't have to practice. Wait until after the wedding and not a day before. Then you will have a clear conscience to make a good choice for a husband and not settle for some jerk. Don't check this out with friends who have already made a mistake. They may want you to be in the same boat as they are in. If that is true. Find new friends. They are in a sinking boat.
Think of something constructive to do with your time. Then you will be happy. Make your life good. You are worth it. ;-)
2006-06-12 22:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Deena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I wonder about that myself. lol Just do what comes naturally, but if hurts him, then try something else. Don't just relax; that's no fun for either of you.
As for it hurting you, I'll be honest here. Yes, most likely your first time will hurt, and maybe a few more after that. Large object, small hole - do the math. But it doesn't have to be all bad. If he can get you off with his hands or his mouth before attempting intercourse, then the pain won't be as noticeable, and even if he finishes quick, you'll still feel like the experience was worth it. If he won't do any of that, I highly recommend finding a partner who will to be your first.
2006-06-11 00:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur supposed to i guess make the guy arroused and relax at the same time but u should help the guy out be on top some times and stuff. Im not really sure the whole sex thing just came to me at the time......O and if u enjoy it try to be quiet but u can make noise too but if u do it turns the guy on more....Good luck....
2006-06-11 00:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right, but do something... You may have heard of cold fish... I have heard that men don't like it when you just lay there. Plus it helps you tighten your stomahce musles if you try to move with him. It's a little werid to imagine but try to do something so he doesn't feel your not interested. That is a BIG turn off if the guy doesn't know your interested. Also the comment earlier about being on top... that is AWESOME, just be sure to not be too nosiey if you are and to pay attention to what he likes also, sex is about both people enjoying it, not just one, if he isn't makeing sure you are then it's not right, it is fu**ing, he just wants to get off, but if you both care about makeing the other enjoy it, then it is magical and acually feels like making love....
2006-06-11 00:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Estrella96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have funn wit dat! Moan alittle touch the partner make them excited breathe hard just enjoy!!
2006-06-11 00:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by butterflybeauty701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first few times the guy is supposed to be on top and you just relax.But then You have to be on top sometimes.
2006-06-11 00:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wudn have been askin d question if u were in luv wid d guy ur goin to have sex wid.
2006-06-11 00:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Preeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being "good" at sex takes practice. you're not going to be good your first time-nobody is. just have fun and if it hurts tell him to slow down. and always use a condom!
2006-06-11 00:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex IS doing something just if you lay there he wont like it as much maybe ( my guess is he'll probably still like it)
2006-06-11 00:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by niceguy050585 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋