I took my son for a check up. When we got home, I decided to tell him that the doctor checked to see if he was a virgin (I know) and do he have anything to tell me.
Well what can I do now he is 13 and having sex?
2006-06-10 17:31:28 · 10 answers · asked by freespiritedtaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nothing really but get his privates removed ......is that too drastic?
2006-06-10 17:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by clarelucky2003 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
wow 13... That's very young! You need to sit down with him and have a very serious talk! tell him everything he needs to know.. It's too bad that he's still a child because he does not understand the consequences.. You need to give the kid more discipline! Good Luck with that
2006-06-10 17:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very open with him. Be friendly and keep the conversation going. Tell him about health risk and safe sex practice. If you express anger, he won't share anything with you.
Good luck!
2006-06-10 17:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by vijaya_neelamraju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him honestly and keep a good eye on him you wont be able to put a complete stop to it but at least be sure he knows all the facts and protects himself as well as his partner. maybe even send him to a parenting or Lamaze class so that he understands the weight of his actions
2006-06-10 17:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I would totally flipi out. I can't even imagine. I just flip out thinking about what you must be going through. I feel for you and I know my time is coming. Good luck.
2006-06-11 01:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that it isnt the right think to do now at his age and tell him the consquences of his actions and if he keeps up with what he is doing then it will likely to end badly.
2006-06-10 18:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by lucyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and make sure he is wearing condoms and keep taking him to get regular check-ups and aids test
2006-06-10 17:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat his ***...... or make sure he understand what kind of stds he can get and maybe make him take a class that show him what it is like to be a daddy
2006-06-10 17:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by mommynokissies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a supply of condoms and let him have his girls at home, that's my advice to you, that way you know where he is and who he is with.
2006-06-11 17:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply the condoms
2006-06-10 17:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋