2006-06-10 17:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by flournoi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Figure out why you are anti-social then work on ways to change it. You have to first address the issues surrounding your anti-socializing skills and get past them then move forward. Once you began to feel comfortable around people then you ease into mingling and conversations. Then your on your way to being the life of the party.
2006-06-10 17:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by reeseusps 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to conform? Sorry, too many years of conspiracy theory problems. If it is change just to appear normal than don't do it. Be yourself. But, if it is to take away your anxiety when out with others than only time will take care of that. Baby steps brother. Of course severe problems like anti-anxiety meds can be prescribed.
2006-06-11 00:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Nagitar™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is find some singles events that are happening in your area. when you attend it,walk aroung listen to conversations for a minute. when there is one that has interest to you,join in. everyone there is looking for conversation. before you know it you will be giving and taking phone numbers. let someone lknow you are not very good at socializing, tell them you are kinds shy if they ask why.someone will quickly lead you around. good luck friend.
2006-06-11 00:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you define as antisocial behaviour. ie whether vandalism etc is antisocial (whether it is in a group or not) or staying away from people.
Vandalism etc. is easy; just stop.
for the other, i see no problem with it, for example, i am an antisocial person in that sense of the word. just do what feels right (sorry about the cliche). if being in a group makes you feel uncomfortable, get out.
2006-06-13 02:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change them. I love mine. I'm social with who I want to be the rest aren't worth the bother.
BTW -- I'm still very popular and the people who I choose to let in, love me. It just a few of them, by my choice.
2006-06-11 00:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give people a chance to know you. Join a team. Any team. Community or even bowling team. Put yourself out there. Don't be afraid to let people see who you are. You may even make some friends.
2006-06-11 00:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get off the computer, and get around people, then just start up decent conversations, don't be too forward, be respectful. Then people will want to hang out with you more often....
2006-06-11 00:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make some friends and stop labeling yourself as "anti social" cuz you're not. you're just a drama queen.
2006-06-11 00:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to mingle more, start small 2-4 people and work up.
2006-06-11 00:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off yahoo answers and meet some people. people who can look you in the eye when you talk to them. people you can see smile when you've said something witty.
try it. right now. log off and go to a coffee house. and stop thinking ur so superior.
2006-06-11 00:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋