dead beat bf?

Question

my sis has been w/her bf 4 about 2 1/2 yrs now they got an apart. 2gether. he has not worked for about 4mths now. but she is still with him. i told her to leave him. but is there anything else i could do to convence her that he is not going to change

Answer 1

nope.. goin through the same thing w/ my sister and nomatter how bad things get she'll be indenial.. my sisters bf totally ruined her senior year of high school and she still wont leave him.. the only thing to do is support her andeventually she'll wake up and know wats goin on

Answer 2

I am sorry I am not much help, just letting you know that I had a dead beat HUSBAND, for 4 yrs and I had friends that I would fight with and family daily about him, but the more I stuck upfor him, the more I beleived it myself that he was fine... so if you let her say otherwise and just listen, the more she hears it from herself, the better the chances are that it will get better. Think about it.... It worked for me, MAYBE it will be with her, just make sure you are there to help her up, cuz she will fall hard when she does, and I couldn;t have gotten away from my guy if it wasn't for my older sister...

Answer 3

she isnt as fickle as you. i havnt had a job for 1 month now but im trying everyday and when i did work i always spent money looking after her and paying for the things she needed e.g. a roof over her head. should she leave me?
are men only needed when we are spending our ******* money on your nails and hair? if you was my sister id tell you to stay out of my business and if i was her bf id say the same.

Answer 4

She wont leave him till she is sick off him..... be nice and try to help him get a job and when he turns it down then say something to her but dont rag her about it. That would just cause a gap in ur relationship with her.

Answer 5

he is the man of the house and should start acting like it. being without a job for four months is pretty sad cause it shows that he is not worried about how the bills get paid.