This girl I hate really likes my ex, what am I suppost to do?

Question

We stayed friends after our breakup and grew really close to eachother (maybe even closer then we were when we dated if thats possible.) But we still flirt a lot and talk on the phone constantly...So this new chick is in the picture and she keeps flirtin with him, she told him she likes him. He doesnt like her back, he told me that. Even before she told him she liked him he told me he sees NOTHING in her! They hang out and she always intrudes on our plans (me, him and our group of friends.) She still calls him ALL THE ****** TIME and he told me he doesnt like it and finds it annoying. The other day she started some drama with me because she wants him and shes jealous of what I had with him. Now shes trying to be all "Im sorry" and act all goody goody and its pissin me off! Shes a real ***** and I want her to get the **** out! I need some suggestions on what to do..or if I should do anything at all.

Answer 1

I think there is nothing great in such situationn. In Hindu religion it is said that everything is inside the mind [and everything outside is a myth, or imagination of mind]. If you calculate, you are the loser, since you are magnifying the situation. Just relax, and take it easy. If you are sincere, loyal, and true to your partner, you will get back everything you lost, [even your confidence]. I hope I am clear in my assessment of the situation. Portray yourself properly, and the world will be in your arms. Best Wishes!
Sunder Thadani
[in Mumbai-India]
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Answer 2

If your friend cannot make it clear that he doesn't want her, there is nothing else you can do. You getting involved only makes it seem like you have old feelings for him, and are jealous of her. At least that is probably what she thinks. So he should deal with it. If he doesn't want to talk to or hang out with her, he needs to be really frank with her. She'll get the point. But if you get involved, she will most likely think that he's saying that because of you.

Answer 3

It sounds like you still have feelings for him. But let him make up his own mind, well you can always sneak in a little advice by hinting something like " I didn't think she was your type but you know whatever turns your crank" So it looks like you don't care. If he doesn't like her than he will tell her and you don't have to waste time being pissed, everyone knows it takes a lot out of you lol

Answer 4

I don't understand why you are concerned about a girl who you don't like, and the guy you broke up with. You need to move on. You are still "renting space" in your head for people who need to be in your past. I'm telling you this out of hard experience. It just isn't worth it.

Answer 5

He's your ex and just your friend, right? Jelousy and hostility ring loud and clear from your email. So grow up, quit holding him hostage. He's free to chose anyone. He has a free will to tell her that he's not interested. So, if he honestly doesn't like her, than why is he being nice to her? Challenge him to be honest with his feelings.

Answer 6

well your ex should tell her he doesnt like her so she doesnt hang around him.because that way you will get good time with him and not with him and her and you need to tell her what you think.And to be serious your ex needs to tell that girl every thing thats true like this...................i dont like you and i dont like when you call me so dont call me. and if he doesnt do that he might really like her and just tell you that he doesnt so you dont get mad at him.because he might have feelings for both of you.

Answer 7

nothing,your friends with your ex,and you should trust him. or you could politely ask her to stop because of what he told you

Answer 8

I think he'll get with her very soon