which he hates, so he's off - saying he can't stand coming home to a drunk - that I'm mean to him - all of which he is repeating to the girl and his co-workers!
Meanwhile, I'm still thinking everything is OK, until I go to be with him one weekend & he points this girl out to me : long striped hair, short, voluptuous body (I'm tall & athletic with short hair) &, of course, 20 years younger than me too.
To make a long story short, the girl dumps him when she finds out about me (he told her we were separated!) & was actually sweet to me the few times I saw her.
All that is fine, but since then, hubby has confessed to 2 other 'instances' of cheating in the past 4 years. I admit that he's always said he's a polygamist, but I never really took it seriously. I guess now I must! I know he loves me - believe it or not - & as long as I know MY feelings come 1st with him, I won't be threatened. Am I nuts to accept him bringing another woman into our home? Like 'Big Love'?
2007-12-11
07:40:32
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