Today is one of those days that I wish I could have a “pass” and skip it. I’m not feeling well. I feel like crying every 5 seconds. IT SUCKS!!!
I think it’s because of what I heard yesterday from my husband. I discovered that our niece called me STUPID. It made me very sad and upset. It’s not just the fact that she called me that, but how I came to find out and how my husband reacted to it.
It’s known that his sister hates me and has done everything to jeopardize our relationship. I’m not asking him to hate her and not talk to her forever, but I do wish to SEE that he’s upset with the situation or even pissed off at her. Every time I hear something about this situation I always wish it was presented to me differently.
I wish he would come up to me and say “ I’m so mad at …..You are not going to believe what she has done this time….. I called and our niece told me “My aunt is Stupid”. I told her not to say that and once my mother picked up the phone I was outraged. I told her that this has gone long enough and that I was going to speak to my sister. I then called her and let her have a piece of my mind”
I don’t know. Something like that. Do you know what I mean? But instead, I found out by accident and all I got was. Our niece said something very stupid and I told her that it was wrong. So I asked him, what did your mom say, and he said, “ all she said was that our niece grabbed the phone from her purse.” So I asked, Did she hear what our niece said? The response ; my mother pretended that she didn’t hear anything.
I don’t know. I’m so tired of this. I don’t know what else to say.
I feel like crap, I’m scared and disappointed.
What is going to happen when we have kids? I already don’t have a relationship with his family how is it going to be then? Is he still not going to take my side?
I love my husband and do want to be with him forever, I just wish that we could come to an agreement on this….
What do you think?
2007-12-11
07:44:01
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