My bf and i have been together for nearly 2 years, he already has a 3 yr old,i'm 30 & always thought by now i would be married,and kids etc,but it didn't happen.He really wants a baby with me and i really would love to have his baby now,his son stays as often as poss,his ex actually asked when he was going to get a brother/sister,(me and his ex get on really well)Everyone i no would love it if i had a baby but the situation we're in right now isn't great, i mean i'm in a lot of debt,(which i'm paying off)from an ex, i've only been in this new job for 3.5 months and at the moment we live with my parents to save a deposit for a mortgage, however our relationship is the best,i waswith my ex for 10 years and none of it was ever like this..I no there is never a 'right time' to have a baby but i can't help worrying what people would think,e.g my new boss and this new job, i'd feel like i was letting them down, but this feeling for a baby won't go away..help please.
2007-12-05
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