2007-12-05 00:46:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your wife doesn't love you then you get a divorce. Then you find someone new and move on.
2007-12-05 00:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by jimapalooza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't enjoy bunking with you mate. Sex might be your motivation but you might not be her motivation to have sex. This whole thing about pretending to sleep and feeling sick is being used as an excuse. To keep you away. Ouch. You are away from home for a month at a time? She probably suspects you of cheating on her within that time. And obviously you suck at holding onto your end of the relationship if your communication isn't open. Keeping her at home like a cage animal. Yeah, that's gonna make her happy. You need something to spice up your sex life together mate. Let's talk about doing romantic things that would make her happy. Instead of coming home, swiping your finger on the floor to check if it's been cleaned by your wife, sitting down for dinner that your wife makes, and then expecting sex, try to rouse her up a bit. Stop being like the King. Start making her feel like the Queen. Take her out for dinner. Not cheapo dinner either, quality dinner at a quality restaurant with good service. Preferably with a view, whether over a river or a whole-city view at night when all the lights are sparkling. Buy her a present. Make her feel special again. Rings, flowers, a shirt that she would wear, a good book if she likes reading, etc. Endless possibilities. Make her smile. Be sweet to her. Touch her tenderly just to reassure her that she is the only one in your life. Open doors for her, car doors too, close the windows if she's cold. LITTLE THINGS MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE.
2016-03-15 06:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yip, well at least for the first 2wks. Then you better wake up and smell the coffee, quickly, before you accidently propose marriage again to an 8mth pregnant chick.
Morally, you spose to re-cap on your life with wife and suss out where it all went wrong, learn from it, and hopefully it'll make you a more understanding, determined, fun loving person. The way we all should be but until then, you just take what little you got and make the most of it, thats all we should expect from e1.
2007-12-08 10:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife doesnt love me, then i will love her so much that she starts loveing me. Why should we go to some one who gives love for money. I dont think that love can be bought by money. Love your wife and make her realise that. Find the reasons why she is not loving you and rectify the defects. Good Luck.
2007-12-05 18:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by JAMES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife doesn't love you, find out why. If you're unable to find out why after exhausting all available options (to include marital counseling), you should initiate a divorce in the interest of self-preservation. After the divorce is final, you're free to date again, pay for sex, or whatever other weird stuff you may be into. Best of luck!
2007-12-05 00:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by NunyaBizzness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew, what a horrible question.
Why do you think your wife doesn't love you?
Cos you are not getting enough sex? Have you tried talking to her about what the problem is?
If you cheat on her and she finds out, i imagine that would be the end of your marriage. Is this what you want?
2007-12-05 00:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by music_lovin_miss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it is definitely the time for circumspection. Try to analyse where the fault lies. A wife in any case love or try to love her busband. But if she really does not love means, the problem has started. There are two ways, either correct oneself to be ready to be loved again by plainly speaking with the wife or try to find out where her mind presently is. In the first case, definitely the bond of love sprout again, but in the case of later, you should outweigh her mind with a spate of your love or simply tell her to be with the guy with whom her love presently binds. Once either of these two cases were over, the next two options which you yourself given in your question can be tried.
2007-12-05 00:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an arranged marriage?
You spend more time listening to her and romancing her and standing up for her with the in-laws and asking her opinions about important things like career and money and kids. Treat her like a sister, but of course, she doesn't want to be your sister, she wants to be your wife, so she will take more initiative.
2007-12-05 01:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The institution of marriage is not just to satisfy your physical needs, but also mental and emotional ones.
If you go out to the whores, who do it for money, you miss out on the emotional / mental satisfaction.
so going out to someone who gives it for money is not the solution. . . .
The best is, talk to your wife to part ways, she goes her ways and you go yours. Find out someone, you can feel emotionaly attached to.
2007-12-05 01:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Narendra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you talking love or sex?
Many mariages are perfetly cabable of working without sex as long as both parties are happy with the arrangement. I am sure you are perfectly cabable of looking after yourself without resorting to either of the above and maybe bringing something home.
If you are talking love, and you are sure she doesnt then move on.
2007-12-05 00:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋