My partner and i only ever fall out over his family. The problem lies with his mother and his sister. Ever since we got together they have never made an effort to get on with me, they say things that are hurtful, his mum and dad treat my partner and his sister totally differently, it's one rule for her another for him. His dad doesn't say anything but then that's just the problem, he obviously doesn't see anything wrong in the way they behave. I shouldn't take it personally as from what i can gather they have acted like this with all his girlfriends. I can understand people saying about his mum, oh that's because he's 'her boy' no-one will ever be good enough for him but she doesn't seem to care about him at all, never phones, visits or asks how he is. The biggest problem is although he knows what they do, he won't stand up to them. He thinks they are family and he doesn't want to burn any bridges, i think he should tell it like it is and they might have more respect? What's your view?
2007-12-05
02:23:41
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