I dated a guy for six months -- he was smart,sexy, funny, sweet at first but quickly became detached, selfish and verbally abusive (disguised as jokes). He stopped wanting to have sex, wanting to go away or spend time alone. So I took a hint, said let's end it -- he agreed and I was sad but relieved. We e-mailed briefly for about a month and one day he asked to meet up . He said he wanted to try again, thet he took me for granted. I agreed with hesitation, because I had been hurt before. Five days later, he showed up at my apt with a bag of my clothes and said "I am selfish and immature , and I know it sounds pathetic but I can't give you what you need." I lost it. I cried like a baby -- he left. He said he really wants to be friends (we were friends first) I can't imagine not having him in my life, but part of me thinks he doesn't deserve my friendship. What would you do? Is it possible to be his friend now -- its been the most painful thing ever because I was in love.
2007-11-29
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