Sometimes I think my husband is emotionally abusive. I do something almost everyday that either makes him mad, hurts his feelings, or aggrivates him. He says that if I could control my temper and "come to the table with a better attitude" that we wouldn't fight near so much. But, there are somethings and sometimes where I feel that he is out of line. He will say things that hurt me and then he gets mad when I get upset. I'm so confused! After the fight, he makes me believe that it IS my fault that we fight for days on end. But outsiders of the relationship think he's a controlling, abusive, jerk. But, he's so smart that I take the blame because he seems to have a good point. How do you know if it's you or your spouse's problem? (This is his 2nd marriage and my first. The first one ended because they couldn't get along either)
2007-11-16
05:14:08
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Hick Chick
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Marriage & Divorce