2007-11-16 05:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by deleted 2 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
if I expect my wife to be a virgin , I must be the same , I can't ask her to be something that I can't do it myself .
2007-11-19 06:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by hasafer 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a man. I think majority wouldn't, but there are still Egyptian guys who would. Now, majority of them would do that because they understand it's a different culture, but still there are some - though I think they are very rare in Egypt - who don't find it relevant at all. A great friend of mine is of that kind. He's an Egyptian, but he's that liberal that he could easily pass as an average Westerner. Also, I think I know at least one more Egyptian guy who wouldn't mind marrying a non-virgin girl at all.
So, I'm trying to say it is up to an individual. You can meet an Egyptian who really wouldn't care about that (though, as I already said, it's a very rare case in Egypt), you can meet a guy who finds it relevant, but still finds love more relevant, so he would eventually marry the girl he loves no matter if she's a virgin or not and of course you could meet a guy who would never even consider that option.
But at the end of the day, I don't think all those questions about Egyptian guys will help you much. You should find out what your guy is like.
2007-11-16 07:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Venus 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hasafer has the right idea. Sure, marrying a virgin would be nice, but if she wasn't a virgin and I loved her, then so be it. After all I would not be a virgin entering that marriage myself.
Of course I am a westerner, so I was brought up a bit differently. Here in the U.S. it is hard to find a virgin who isn't still a child.
2007-11-19 07:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by theCATALYST 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well its not only about men but also the women you know i read that a girl who lost her virginity fell in love with a man who is not a virgin and is convinced that he must have the freedom to do this stuff as a man you know what did she say she said will he forgive me for that????? one word a very very dont want to say a bad word
anyway you know if a man who is a good muslim not a shallow muslim he will just pretend as nothing happen it is in islam and thats what i call a man
and its called el sater i hope someone here explain this better
2007-11-21 03:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man needs to be broad minded and have foreign influence through study or travel to accept a non-virgin female as a wife.
2007-11-16 07:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Moonrise 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If I love her , and she is good , and can be a good wife and mother to our kids , then i can forgive her for any bad past , but if i can choose between virgin good girl and non-virgin good girl , sure i will choose the virgin ,
2007-11-16 11:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Reikominder 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
for me as a highly educated Egyption man with liberal family, i refuse to marry a non-virgin girl. it's not because of her past or her behavior (her past and behavior are important to me also), but because i want to be the first man who have a close relation with my wife. this very romantic, u r the first man to lay on top of her and invade this body (besides u invaded her soul and heart by ur love).
please think of it like that:
u are the first one that she permitted u to invade her and she is very happy about it, she likes it.
isn't it very romantic ?
2007-11-20 03:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Well, usually men would not take a non-virgin girl unless she has a very good explanation.
virginity is a state of mind before being of the body
2007-11-16 05:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Salah 3 · 5⤊ 5⤋
Thank you Hasafer for addressing that ever present double standard that exists.
2007-11-19 07:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by The Ministry of Common Sense 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Mmmm.... virgins
2007-11-16 05:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋