I have liked this boy for a while now, and last night when we were out with our friends, he kissed me, like three times! I'm so happy but now I don't know what to do so that he asks me out??!! Please help. x
2007-11-16 05:16:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well is he a player? because i dont think you want a player. but if he's not, then go ahead and kiss him back, he already made the first move, that means he's interested, give him a kiss or two!
2007-11-16 05:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Erikawithasmile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask him out? He's already sent the message. Hes probably just waiting for a serious reply from you.
Ideas:
Ask him to walk you home from school (I assume youre still in school), if its not too far. This is a great opportunity to get to know each other better and it doesnt require you to jump into an awkward first date.
Go to the movies. Its relatively inexpensive and you don't have to make conversation.
Play miniature golf, bumper cars, bowling, etc. Its fun, so it will help break the ice.
Go on a group date. Get some friends and their guys to go out for dinner or something. Bring him along.
Having trouble figuring out how to approach him?
BE CONFIDENT. Thats it. The rest is easy. Tell him you enjoyed the other day and that youd like to get to know him better. Then tell him youre going to (insert activity here) and ask if he wants to join you.
2007-11-16 13:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin head 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well keep things rolling! But, don't act all weird and strange about it. Yeah you are probably excited and over joy but, try not to let him see ALL of you happyness. Yeah you can smile at him and sneak a look from time to time . But keep it cool.
Just act the way you always do around him. Obviously that got you somewhere ( a kiss) and if he is really interested in you then he'll probably make a move. But this doesn't mean that you don't have to take the opportunity to ask HIM out right???
2007-11-16 13:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jerzigurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything. Most girls ruin their chances because they start calling all the time or acting over baring. Just let this take its course. If he kissed you three times last night then you can already assume you have your foot in the door, but let him make the moves. Don't play hard to get or anything, make yourself available, but don't be pushy.
2007-11-16 13:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by MerMer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing! He likes you because you are you! You don't have to perform, you don't have to act a certain way. Just communicate with him and spend time with him. Relationships are for enjoying! Keep the performance on the stage!
2007-11-16 13:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by TigerianWinter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kissed u it mean that he likes u to and he will eventually ask u out
2007-11-16 13:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Ala*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Tell him that you enjoyed the previous night and would like to spend more time with him.
2007-11-16 13:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds so forward but I have a boy friend ( not romantically linked) and he says sometimes guys like to know where they stand and it's good for them to know if a girl likes them. So tell him that you like him and you like his company. We'll see how he would react.
2007-11-16 13:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Reeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change. Be yourself, but show him you're interested and then just wait it out. If he's a smart guy he'll see you're interested and he'll make a move and maybe ask you out sometime.
2007-11-16 13:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask him, there is no law saying a girl cant ask out a guy.
2007-11-16 13:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Casey Pieper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋