Im 20, in college and an extremely extroverted, nice, friendly and healthy young woman. Sometimes it sort of bothers me, however, to think that I have NEVER been asked out by a guy. I've never been out on a date with anyone although I have tons of friends who love me(in a platonic way). I'm also very outgoing and people perceive me as a very happy and self-confident person. So what could be a reason for this? I also want to mention that I am very short and brown-toned. Although I don't think that my looks could be the main reason for it, as people in all different sizes and shapes still have somebody, sometimes I do ponder about my appearance.
I have no clue as to why no guy has ever found me attractive or nobody has ever showed any interest in me in a romantic way.
What could possibly be the reason? I feel absolutely clueless.
Would I end up as the single 50-year-old virgin when all my friends would have kids already in school?
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No guys have actually expressed any kind of interest in me before no matter how friendly we were to each other, and most of the men I know here in college or anywhere these days are either homosexual or in a relationship. Some people get shocked when they hear that I never had a boyfriend (which sort of makes me feel a little awkward). A lot of my girl friends (who are straight) think I am a beautiful and jovial woman with a really attractive smile and the best personality. So sometimes I just think that "How come I never had anybody into me?"
Another thing is that most of the guys that I found attractive were never really into me at all. Thus, I didn't even bother to make the first move anytime.
2007-11-01
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