ok so i met this guy when i was 15. and we started talking and a while later we went out. but when we was going out he hads a lady living with him.
then when i found out he had a gurl i broke up with him.
but then.. i found out i was having a kid of him. but i never told him nothing.
before i had my kid i ment this other guy who im living with now. he loves my kid like if it was he own. my kid is four years old now and he is sick and doctors say he wont be living for a long time. i think the kid needs to spend time with his real daddy....do you think i should tell him i had a kid of him?
2007-11-01 17:31:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that's a difficult question, the best i can tell you is, follow your heart, your instincts. If you feel comfortable with the idea of telling him, do it, but if you feel kind of bad about telling him, just don't do it. Think about the kid, maybe if he already know about his real dad, its a good idea to tell him and to let him spend time with his dad, but if your child doesn't know about his real dad, don't tell him, you'll make him suffer. That's what i think, hope i helped you ^_^ Take care and whatever you do and choose, good luck!!!
2007-11-01 17:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I'll try my best. but remember something. I'm only 15 so yeah. i think you should tell the guy who's the real dad the truth and the guy your living with the truth. i know its hard but do it for the kid. or you could never tell anyone the truth. but sooner or later the truth will spill out. better now then never right. hope this helps. later.
2007-11-02 00:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell the real dad about the kid. Remember, You're no doing this for your ex but for your kid who deserves to know who his real father is. And whatever your ex's reaction will be, be ready.
2007-11-02 01:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by the dropper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry to hear that.
I think you should tell him about the child, after all he has the right to know about him regardless of everything.
tell him about your child and make the best of your time with you child.
I hope there will be a miracle though. good luck. Just keep believing.
2007-11-02 00:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he has the right to know, but then back off if his reaction is less than cordial...you've already did the right thing at that point.
2007-11-02 00:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is i am seriously tearing (slightly crying) right now as i type. i think you should tell him and spend time with him. unless u think that would confuse him...look i am so sorry for you...hope you feel better soon....
2007-11-02 00:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell him so he can atleast see his kid before he passes..Just imagine you were the dad wouldn't you wanna see your kid before "it" happens?
2007-11-02 00:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by jake w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting an education and keeping your legs closed.
2007-11-02 00:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell the dad what's going on
2007-11-02 00:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Latino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋